You see a girl you find attractive, and you walk up to her and get a conversation started.
Things seem to be going great. She's responding well to you, but then, all of a sudden, something happens. . .
You run out of stuff to say!
And the awkward pause ensues. And before you know it, the girl excuses herself and moves on.
Let me tell you - this type of thing happens ALL THE TIME.
And it typically happens because most guys just don't know how to talk to girls! They may have their first couple of lines ready to go to get the conversation started, but after that, they are just "winging it. "
But all too often, when it gets to the point where they have to talk to the girl, and they don't have anything already thought out, their
brain STALLS, and the conversation dies a slow and painful death.
Not too many people realize that there is an art to conversation. Getting it started is one thing, but keeping it going is quite another all together.
If you have ever been in a situation where your conversation with a girl has gone south before you could get her phone number, you know what I am talking about.
So how can you keep the conversation going strong from the beginning? The answer to this is simpler than you might think.
First of all, understand that questions are the building blocks of conversations. Every question you ask a girl leads to a new and
exciting part of the interaction.
The problem is that most guys ask the WRONG questions.
They ask your typical "boring" questions like "what's your name?" "where do you live?" "what do you do for work?" Blah, blah, blah.
Now, these aren't bad questions - after all, you'll need this information at some point - but you can't rely on questions like these to keep an initial conversation healthy!
Instead, you have to ask fun, interesting questions that will actually engage the girl, and make her want to keep talking to you.
This can lead to conversations about her pets, what kind of pets she'd want, etc.
That isn't to say you should never talk about yourself, but when you keep the conversation focused on her, she will get the feeling that you're actually INTERESTED in her.
And as we all know - girls LOVE to talk about themselves.
So when you ask the right questions, and keep the conversation focused her - who she is and what she likes and dislikes - you can keep any conversation moving in the right direction.
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