please, i need an advice!! i have a girl friend in nigeria who i must say that we have dated for four years.... and before then, we had lost contact for about 2 years.... later, i really don't know how she got my number again... but i was happy though i was already in a relationship . so after some communications, she invited me to her place and we talked at lenght and i asked her if she was dating someone else, and she told me yes but that she loved me more.... and i must confess that day i saw her was the first day i actually kissed a girl.... after a while, my secondary school mate called me and told me that he saw the girl and that she looked sexy and asked me for her number..... i thought it was ok since they were friends in primary school... so i gave him.... after about a month when i was in IMSU, the boy told me that she invited him to her house and they had a kisses and some rouh play.. even though no sex.... i was shocked since this was a girl that i left my girlfriend for... so i was annoyed and asked her, she denied at first but later owned up... i told her that it was over between us, and she was begging me of which i forgave out of pity... but the truth is that i don't have feelings for her anymore.... and since i left Nigeria to study abroad, she still calls me like everyday.. of which i know that it is very expensive and her text messages almost made me quarel with my white girlfriend...should i tell her to stop calling me or should i continue pretendind to love her too.. |