please, i need an advice!! i have a girl friend in nigeria who i must say that we have dated for four years.... and before then, we had lost contact for about 2 years.... later, i really don't know how she got my number again... but i was happy though i was already in a relationship . so after some communications, she invited me to her place and we talked at lenght and i asked her if she was dating someone else, and she told me yes but that she loved me more.... and i must confess that day i saw her was the first day i actually kissed a girl.... after a while, my secondary school mate called me and told me that he saw the girl and that she looked sexy and asked me for her number..... i thought it was ok since they were friends in primary school... so i gave him.... after about a month when i was in IMSU, the boy told me that she invited him to her house and they had a kisses and some rouh play.. even though no sex.... i was shocked since this was a girl that i left my girlfriend for... so i was annoyed and asked her, she denied at first but later owned up... i told her that it was over between us, and she was begging me of which i forgave out of pity... but the truth is that i don't have feelings for her anymore.... and since i left Nigeria to study abroad, she still calls me like everyday.. of which i know that it is very expensive and her text messages almost made me quarel with my white girlfriend...should i tell her to stop calling me or should i continue pretendind to love her too..
Posted: at 17-07-2010 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 17-07-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
If u don't have feelings for her anymore,which it's understandable after what she has done, and if u're already in another relationship, why on earth u would continue to pretend that u're still in love with her? It seems that u don't know what u want!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 17-07-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
nope... she is to set me free instead.. most times, i don't pick her calls, and even when i do, she will be crying and asking me why didn't i pick.... freak
Posted: at 17-07-2010 03:42 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 17-07-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: donwilz on 17-07-2010 03:42 PM
nope... she is to set me free instead.. most times, i don't pick her calls, and even when i do, she will be crying and asking me why didn't i pick.... freak
You have the power to stop all this, if u really want it,even if it will be need to be harsh on her! How much could a woman to humiliate herself if she sees that she's rejected? She'll stop eventually!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 17-07-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 17-07-2010 04:06 PM (14 years ago) (f)
If you once liked her, set her free from herself by telling her, spelling it out that it is over btw you two........pretence wont do any of you good.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 17-07-2010 04:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
qunodinga at 17-07-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: donwilz on 17-07-2010 03:42 PM
nope... she is to set me free instead.. most times, i don't pick her calls, and even when i do, she will be crying and asking me why didn't i pick.... freak
plz stop all this and be a man....spell it out for her and stop hurting her feelings for you. N/B the earlier you do it the better you all
Posted: at 17-07-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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