Quote from: sexy_error on 20-06-2011 10:04 AM
@duduosun, what do you mean....are we to marry as virgin?
@ sexy_error, all am saying it is the best thing to do if the person is still a virgin,but if not he or she can still repent and desist from pre marital sex. God commanded it a sin, he has a reason for this. A lot of other segxwally transmitted diseases can be contacted through it.Since the wife is pregnant already the ideal thing to do is to repent and ask forgiveness.Sex before marriage has its repercussions.Sex is God's idea and he designed it for intimacy and procreation in marriage,why go against his idea, see what Proverbs 16:25 says and also Hebrews 13 :4. Waiting to be married before having sex is made easy only by the grace of GOD.Every body is doing it i.e getting pregnant before marriage or premarital sex does mean it is right. Premarital sex is one of the reasons why some many marriages are destructed, because the husband or wife have been segxwally active and their spouse isn't able to satisfy them.If a christian doesn't enter heaven for taking matches from her neighbour's match box without telling her,what happens to other sins like adultery,fraud,murder etc.Am not judging anybody, all am saying is we need to watch what we do and say. If the church cannot lay good examples who will?Remember,we all sin,we just need to always confess our sins and ask for forgiveness.The church refusing the wedding did them a favour which was for them to see their sin, feel remorse, repent and ask for forgiveness.Is so good to know that true bible believing churches still exist.