Come on seriously lets be honest here, i know gurls will say, "they expect their man to wear it because its a symbol of their love" you know that is not y u want him to wear that ring, you want him to wear that ring like shackles, like handcuffs, so everyone around him will know he is taken. As much as they love us, and will never stray, some people just don't like shackles, nobody likes being in bondage.