why are you asking for advice when you already know what you want? "But I don't think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl". whatever you do pls do not kill your daughter.

I need to hear this for myself before i can believe it. the media is good at twisting stories. the bible says we should investigate every story carefully in order to establish the truth.

We can't really blame these ladies. Most of them were in the relationship before their guys travelled abroad. This should not bring an end to the relationship.

There is nothing wrong with waiting for ur man to come back and marry you after his return. It depends on the two of you. My woman waited 6yrs for my return - I went to 9ja in july for our introduction and will be going again in november for our wedding.

The fact is majority of the girls fall victim of the guys who were forced to marry someone abroad (mostly white girls) to earn their livelihood.