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Quote from: GullahGeeche on 1-11-2011 01:59 AM
This kind of attraction usually happens with 20 and 40 year olds and 30 and 50 year olds. If your friend is over 30 I would say go for it if it is the Lords will. More than likely a 30 year old woman is MATURE thinking person and ready to settle down.
The success of the relationship depends on how MATURE they both are. Most often the older person has matured. They have experienced a lot and know what they want in life. However, the younger woman who today is impressed with his maturity may tomorrow accuse him of being old fashioned. So, if your friend is mature and settled I would say she should go for it IF IT IS THE LORDS WILL.
A word of caution:
If your friend still feels like she has some more partying she wants to do, I suggest she leave him alone. She also needs to consider her segxwal appetite. Sex is a very important part of marriage. Women are pretty much good to go until our last day on earth. However, men may have some segxwal "challenges" in their older age. She should be a person who is in it for better or for worse. When she is 40 she will still enjoy sex and will even want more of it. That is why men in their 20's and women in their 40's have a strong segxwal relationship. They are both at their segxwal peek. If she is 40 and he is 60 he may not be able to make love to her like he use to. If she can live with that she should pray and if God is o.k. to marry him. If God approves, she should go for it!
The success of the relationship depends on how MATURE they both are. Most often the older person has matured. They have experienced a lot and know what they want in life. However, the younger woman who today is impressed with his maturity may tomorrow accuse him of being old fashioned. So, if your friend is mature and settled I would say she should go for it IF IT IS THE LORDS WILL.
A word of caution:
If your friend still feels like she has some more partying she wants to do, I suggest she leave him alone. She also needs to consider her segxwal appetite. Sex is a very important part of marriage. Women are pretty much good to go until our last day on earth. However, men may have some segxwal "challenges" in their older age. She should be a person who is in it for better or for worse. When she is 40 she will still enjoy sex and will even want more of it. That is why men in their 20's and women in their 40's have a strong segxwal relationship. They are both at their segxwal peek. If she is 40 and he is 60 he may not be able to make love to her like he use to. If she can live with that she should pray and if God is o.k. to marry him. If God approves, she should go for it!
i think you're right. i'll be praying for her. this is sure a big decision
am just glad he makes her very happy
