My Friend is Datign A Guy 20 Years Older

Date: 31-10-2011 8:52 am (13 years ago) | Author: miracle aduku
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- at 31-10-2011 08:52 AM (13 years ago)
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hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?

Posted: at 31-10-2011 08:52 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- zainaim01 at 31-10-2011 11:41 AM (13 years ago)
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All in i have to say is that, if she's very sure dat the guy loves her then tell her to go ahead and marry him because all this nowadays guys are not ready for introduction talk less of marriage, she better don't misused this opportunity.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 11:41 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
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ok thanks will tell her.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- kebella at 31-10-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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her happiness matters alot................. Cool
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 31-10-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago)
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If they both love themselves, they should stand together......go ahead...........
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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well i called her now to inform her and she's really really in love with him. she doesnt care about the age. his family is very happy for both of them. the problem now is how she's going to tell her family
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago)
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20 yrs older,or more, hmmnnnnnn.....*finking mde activated*
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 31-10-2011 12:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?

Well, if she is not bothered of this big difference, then it's ok, but...tell her to take in consideration everything before
taking the final decision!
Good luck! 
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 31-10-2011 12:32 PM
Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?

Well, if she is not bothered of this big difference, then it's ok, but...tell her to take in consideration everything before
taking the final decision!
Good luck! 

i will. thanks all of you. you've been very helpful. didn't know what to tell her when i first heard the news.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- hotguy77 at 31-10-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago)
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How old is she or the man cos if she goes ahead to marry a fifty year old man, he may (God forbid) not live long to take care of the children considering the life span of men in this part of the world. Lets not shy away from reality.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 01:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hotguy77 on 31-10-2011 01:14 PM
How old is she or the man cos if she goes ahead to marry a fifty year old man, he may (God forbid) not live long to take care of the children considering the life span of men in this part of the world. Lets not shy away from reality.

she's in her 20s and he's almost in his 50s
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 31-10-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?
Why shouldn't she accept after sleeping with him? Why scared of what people will say and not what the age difference can cause on her? Anyhow, President Mugabe is almost 40yrs older than his wife and they are married so what's 20yrs if her happiness is guaranteed Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?
Why shouldn't she accept after sleeping with him? Why scared of what people will say and not what the age difference can cause on her? Anyhow, President Mugabe is almost 40yrs older than his wife and they are married so what's 20yrs if her happiness is guaranteed Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

i dont know if she slept with him or not. she didn't tell me that part.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 31-10-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago)
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In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!

guess you're right. Smiley am just glad he makes her very happy
Posted: at 31-10-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 31-10-2011 02:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 31-10-2011 12:32 PM
Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?

Well, if she is not bothered of this big difference, then it's ok, but...tell her to take in consideration everything before
taking the final decision!
Good luck! 

i will. thanks all of you. you've been very helpful. didn't know what to tell her when i first heard the news.

You're welcome!
But try to not influence her in any way with that decision! It must be her decision entirely!
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
i think m with this dude.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- enema17 at 31-10-2011 02:16 PM (13 years ago)
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does it sound wicked of me to wish it was a younger guy she was dating instead?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 31-10-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
i think m with this dude.
Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 31-10-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy
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