Many people have missed a golden opportunity of a life time,Especially when it comes to relationship matters... Many ladies have treated their future husband with disdain & have treated them ungodly .... No man is perfect. & Dream man or Dream Woman only exist in the movies,You have to make your partner the person yu want him/her to be /.... In your own case,Be prayerful & trust in God for HE is God That Turns Impossibilities To Possibilities ..... Salam..