anyone who thinks that you have to get married at 35 or 28 or upward should abstain from sex until marriage.....in fact, what is the grace or ornament of marriage after not being able to keep yourself pure until marriage?
if this is what you are determined to do, you shall not live to see it happen in Nigeria!! we pray of this nation year in year out and this means you are praying counter to ours. let God judge
it is is delicate issue.....how old is he and what is the age difference between you? what is taste of woman since you know him that well? do you fit in his taste? since you are like sister and brother, you can ask him some sensitive questions as if you are talking in someone's behalf and hear from him what his view on relationship or his best suitors are if you fit in...above all, if you are a Christian, please pray and ask God and let Him tell you if he is the right person for you and if he is, it shall be possible but don't leave God out of it please
I never a moment told a lie in trying to get my wife's love....I think the reason men normally lie is due to their inferiority complex to those women...they feel those women are so to speak 'hard to get'....a woman is a woman and a human but most of them don't like the reality at all....the lustful and myopic ones would never settle for the little truth about a man but the bulky lie
IF SOMEONE TRANSFERS HUGE SUM OF MONEY FROM HIS COUNTRY INTO A FOREIGN ACCOUNT WHERE HE FEELS IS SAFER IS THAT MONEY LAUNDERING, OR BECAUSE HE IS A CHRISTIAN OR MAN OF GOD SO TO SPEAK? HOW MANY YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN WHO COME TO NIGERIA FROM OVERSEAS WITH MILLIONS AND THEY PARADE STREETS AND GO ABOUT FREELY? LET GOD JUDGE YOUR JOURNALISTS, PASTOR CHRIS AND ALL THOSE INVOLVED VERBALLY OR NOT!!!! GOD IS STRONG TO THIS AND MAY HE BRING OUT THE TRUTH AND PUNISH SEVERELY THOSE WHO ARE IN THE WRONG!!!
YOUNG GIRL, YOU CAN DECIDE YOUR OWN FUTURE BECAUSE LIKE A BLANK SHEET OF PAPER WITH A PEN IT LIES BEFORE YOU..YOU CAN WRITE WHATEVER YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU BUT THE EFFECT OF WHATEVER YOUR DECISION WAS TO WRITE WILL SURELY LIVE BEFORE YOUR OWN EYES AND HOPE YOU TRULY LIKE IT. AS OTHERS SAID, WHAT HAS ROMANCE GOT TO DO WITH *******....WELL, LET ME ANSWER THAT; NOTHING AT ALL! ROMANCE AND YOUR TWO-WORDS OBJECT HAVE NO RELATIVITY WHATSOEVER! HAVE YOU EVER COOKED DINNER WITH YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE? HAVE YOU BEEN CLEANING THE DISHES WHILE HE COOKS OR SETTING THE DINNING ROOM WHILE HE TRIES HANDLING A SINGLE FORK OVER TO YOU? HAVE YOU WRITTEN JUST A SINGLE SENTENCE FOR EXAMPLE "I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER" AND PLACE IT IN A POCKET THE OF HIS OUTING CLOTHES FOR THAT DAY? YOU SEE, WHERE YOU COME FROM MAY HAVE INFLUENCE ON YOUR CHOICE EITHER OF WORDS OR ACTION BUT THERE ARE CERTAIN WORDS WHICH HAVE NO OTHER MEANING THAN WHAT IS KNOWN WORLD WIDE...WHO EVER PLACED EVEN SEX AS A DETERMINER OF ROMANCE? ONE COULD HAVE A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP FOR EVEN TWO OR THREE YEARS FREE OF SEX..
BLESS YOU BROTHER, I AM A HUMAN DEVELOPMENT EXPERT; THIS DOES NOT ENTAIL ANY GRAVITY AS TO THIS TOPIC BUT SERVES AS AN INTRODUCTION OF MY AREA OF SPECIALTY SO AS TO KNOW WHERE I COME FROM ON MY ADVICE. FOR HER TO COME UP WITH THAT DECISION IN LURING YOU TO BED MEANS SHE HAS DEVELOPED THAT DESIRE AND PLANNED ITS FRUITION. WE ARE AFRICANS SO I WOULD CALL THAT A PREMEDITATED EVIL BUT IN THE WESTERN WORLD I WOULD TERM HER AS BEING VICIOUS AND ILLICIT. WELL SAID; I SHALL ADVICE YOU TO FIND A WAY TO TELL YOUR BROTHER THE TRUE STORY BECAUSE FOR HER TO GIVE BIRTH TO SUCH DESIRE MEANS SHE IS ABLE TO FURTHER HARM YOUR BROTHER MAYBE UNKNOWINGLY. IT WILL SAVE YOUR BROTHER OF THE IMMINENT CATASTROPHE AND MAYBE THAT WOULD HAVE A POSITIVE IMPACT ON HER AS IN CHANGING HER PROGRAMMING IN HER NEXT RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE FOR SURE, YOUR BROTHER WILL DIVORCE HER
Nigerians and Ghanaians have this problem on the massive scale....I believe in Nigeria and Ghana there is a culture of nationalism which is over exhibited to the point that they prioritize their local dialects more than English...I have seen some nigerians and ghanaians who do not even know the basics of English as that is..Subject and Verb agreement...it is absolutely pathetic to an extent that when they speak I will bow my head in shame
There is one Milan brother.... there are Inter and Milan... before one club but divided as other members believed in nationalism and others the contrary since then, there has Milan named after the city....We have few Africans in the team at the moment who seem to be struggling to get first team action and so I think it is a good idea that before any African go to Milan at the moment, they should think well. They really treated George Weah disrespectfully...now we have a Ghanaian in the line-up so let us pray for him always to succeed..Kelvin Prince Boateng
@Onyiis, that is right...it means arguments can no more be settled if sex were the only means.....sex is not the basis of any reltionship but a component which is vital in an already-progressive an healthy relationship between spouses
If sex settles it at 20..30..40..50..60.., will sex still settle things at age 70? what will settle issues at that ae then? be reminded that sex only makes up 10% of a relationship and not as decisive as modern days people think it to be. what if your spouse falls sick and is in such situation for about three years where in he or she is unable to give or receive sex?
It might be as simple as I said it because of human's ability to receive such untold change but as long as the husband is loving and sees beyond his two physical eyes, he can achieve maximum success
THE ONLY OPTION IS TO STAND WITH HER THROUGH THESE CIRCUMSTANCES AS HER HUSBAND AND BE WITH HER UNTIL SHE COMES THROUGH.....RELIGIOUS AFFILIATIONS DIFFER BUT AS FOR A GOOD CHRISTIAN BELIEVER, YOU CAN DEFINITELY SEE A GOOD CHRISTIAN COUNSELOR/PRAYER TEAM IN YOUR CHURCH AND SHE WILL DEFINITELY COME THROUGH AND BE YOUR CHOICE AGAIN SOON
@ONYII.....SHE MIGHT NEED LOVE FOR SURE BECAUSE THERE MIGHT BE INSTANCES OR SOME INEVITABLE CIRCUMSTANCE THAT CAN FORCE SOME PEOPLE INTO SUCH FRAME OF MIND BUT NO LEVEL OF LOVE CAN GAIN THE VICTORY OF CHANGING HER....THE BEST WAY ROUND OR ADVICE TO THAT LOVING HUSBAND WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO LOVE HER IS 'TIME'
STUBBORN WIFE FROM YOUR POINT OF VIEW I GUESS MEANS A WOMAN WHO HAS NO OR LITTLE RESPECT FOR HER HUSBAND, APPRECIATES NOTHING THAT HE DOES, GIVES LESS TO THE HOME AND HAS PROBABLY BECOME A NIGHTMARE TO HER HUSBAND...IF THIS IS WHAT YOU MEAN, NO HUSBAND CAN HANDLE HER BUT ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE HER...AS SHE HAS REACHED THIS LEVEL, IT MEANS LOSING THE MAN HAS GOT LITTLE OR NO INFLUENCE ON HER AGAIN....NO HUSBAND CAN HANDLE HER..IT IS BETTER TO LIVE IN A CORNER OF A ROOF THAN IN A HOUSE SHARED WITH A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN
ONE CAN EASILY WEIGH THE SIGNIFICANCE AND IMPLICATIONS OF BEARING CHILDREN WITHIN THE CONFINES OF MARRIAGE WHERE THE CHILDREN WOULD GROW UP WITH BOTH PARENTS WHO INTENTIONALLY AND WILLING GOT MARRIED WILL BE FULLY INVOLVED WITH THEIR UPBRINGING AND BEARING CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK WHERE THERE IS A VERY EASY POSSIBILITY OF BECOME A SINGLE PARENT SOONER RATHER THAN LATER AND FURTHER LOWERING IN VALUE IN THE EYES OF OTHER MEN....
This is a very sad event in the history of humanity!!! I am sincerely sure that similar issues will arise but with high gravity no onwards especially in Africa and most especially in Nigeria where most people prefer to get it regardless the means. Her parents are wicked and undeserving to live!! How dare do parents allow their child to sponsor their debts! Oh slothful and devious parents! May God require the iniquity of your daughter out of your hands if indeed you people know about this and support it
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