Well i don't believe in blaming christianity on the white man, because know one really know what color Jesus was.

And how do a nigerian living in a village get rich, by stealing or scamming people?

Have the baby, because children or a child is a blessing, believe me i know.  I am a 47 year old single mother of a 27 year old daughter.  I gave birth to her at the age of 19 with no support from the father, but you make sure you get some support from this guy. I would suggest that you have a paternity test done so that you will have documents to prove that he is the childs father, so that you get financial support from him for the child. or if he die, the child will have legal rights to his benefits. You owe this to the child.

Why is a scrip club even necessary, when most men can get the same pleasure by looking at porn which is much cheaper than a scrip club. Or they can go home and look at their wives , or girl. That is not  necessary to me.

Try jesus, he want let you down.

Well Jesus is the only friend I know, he want betray you or leave you when in need. Try being friends with him

Chizze, you did not lose your virginity in your dream, you had a wet dream and that is normal with men. The only way to lose your virginility is to have sex with a woman.

well we are both human, American & Nigerian and we are also both black, i don't think neither of us are more superior than the other. The only difference in Americans and Nigerians are that Nigerians value Education, whereas some American do not take advantage of the opportunitues they have in America concerning Education.   And Nigerians have given other Nigerians bad names because of their criminal activites in USA, they are not trusted in America because of the scams they committ and usa.

Well it don't matter if a church don't have a charity at the church, we are still suppose to tithe. God loves a cheerful giver. I have given to the church in many ways when i had no money., i gave my time

Well the Bible says a man that says there is no God is a fool.

Cadanre, you sould like a true muslim, which is hard to find here in USA.  Most of the blacks that consider themselves as muslims are most criminals and knows nothing about the quran. Keep studying to show yourself approved to God.   I have respect for all religions, however i do not believe in the muslim teachings. But to each his own. I also believe in freedom of religion, we all have the right to choose what religion we like the most.

Well brother to be honest, I have been celibate for 11 years, no partner and i do not regret it at all..  But before you can really have  good relationsjip with a woman, you must first have a good relationship with God. Sex or a man is not a priority in my life right now, not to say i don't like men.  But a good woman waits until the right man find her, she don't go looking for him.  You see some women feel like they cannot live without a man or sex in their life, well i am proof that not all women are sex maniacs, some women just don't like being alone, well i am not one of those type of women. I have really enjoyed the single life, because no one controls me and i like being free. So to answer your question, Life great thanks to God almighty.

Well i would not make it my routine picking up homeless men.  I understand you met him at church, but everybody that goes to church is not saved.  I mean some women are just weak when it comes to men. I believe you should get to know a person before even thinking about have sex or a relationship with that person, let him wait at least 6 months, just to see how real and sincere he is.  I mean where are your standards or do you have any?

Try to get to the nearest homeless shelter, because section 8 have a waiting list and so do government housing.

creative if you don't live in America, i guest it don't concern you

Well he was just a greedy doctor who did whatever Michael wanted, not realizing that he was killing him with that medication.. That is what money will do for you., and Michael is now one of the most richest dead men., too bad he couldn't take it with him.  LOL

Let see does that qualify you to be in the World book of records?  Not something to be bragging about. You might need to be excorted to the clinic for hiv/aids test as soon as possible.

Yes the World will come to an end one day, but whose to say when, nobody knows when this will happen. Are you a psychic or fortune teller or something?

Well it depends on what you consider poverty as being. I mean you have people who work pay check to pay check and they are called the working poor.  I am sure they would do better if they could, but it takes 2 people these days to make it. So if the 2 of you are both working, things would go much smoother.  I mean guys look for security too these days.

Well usually men that break you heart are the ones you give the cookie to too soon, give a men a challenge and he will respect you more.