Dakore is so beautiful. I love her. Her husband is a very lucky man. I hope he does not get jealous because his wife will be recieving a lot of attention from men. Happy married life.

the girl is an ingrate. If his money was good enough to get your degree, he should be good enough for you to settle down with.

this makes me sick. I wonder why  some men are so stupid. If a man cannot get a girl to agree to sleep with him, he should go and sleep with a goat or a dog because that  is where he belongs. If he is not man enough to marry a wife, then he should not have sex, except if he has the brian of  a goat in his skull, which is exactly what  men that drug/rape women have. Animals  having the body of human!!!. He should be stripped naked and make him walk round lagos Nood  and finally be beaten to death because his likes makes our society unsafe for young girls. If he did it once, he will do it again. He is sick in the head.

No reason is justified for him to drug her  for sex. If she ate his money, she did not drug him to get those money, she did not force him to give her money, he gave her the money willingly. So there is no reason whatsoever that will make a human being whose was born by a  mother who has some sense to drug a girl inorder to sleep with her. If he cannot get her to sleep with him willingly, then he should move on , even if he has spend money on her. Afterall, relationship between a boy and a girl was never meant to involve sex in the first place, sex was supposed to be between two married people. ONLY FOOLS AND COWARDS WILL DRUG A GIRL TO SLEEP WITH HER EVEN IF SHE ATE ALL THE MONEY HE MADE IN HIS LIFE TIME. TWISTED MINDS ARE EVERYWHERE, GIRLS BE SMARTER.

he broke up with her because they quarlled over him accepting gifts and money from his ex. He had a fling with this girl before he met my friend, and when he met my friend he took her to his parent and brother/sisters and let them know  he intends to marry her. He also told the one nite stand girl that he is now engaged to my firend. But after he told her, she kept giving him money and gifts. He was accepting it and never told his girlfriend about it. Then when he would not marry her like she requested, she asked for her money back, he paid her. After he paid her, he was broke, so he asked my friend for money, and that was when he told her that the money he had was what he used to repay the other girl. My friend was angry that he was secretly accepting money from the other girls and only told her when he needed to collect money from her.  she insulted him. He broke up with her because he said she was disrespectly about it, then he started dating another girl immediately. After 4 months, he came begging for my friend to take him back, he said she was the only one he truly love. She refused to take him back, she never really loved him in the first place, she made it clear to him at the begining of their relatiosnhip that she does not love him but will date him. She is concerned that he may tell his mum and brother to beg her to take him back.  Should she ignore even his family when they come begging??? Sincere advice needed.

Women should be bold  and say what they want. When a guy wants sex, he tell the girl, so when a girl want sex, she should also tell the guy, period!!!!

But Nigerian men are becoming lazy and shameless. They now comfortably beg their girlfriend for money which is very annoying.  That is one thing that will make me break up with a guy, I will look for someone else immediately he starts begging me for money because I cannot be the man and woman in every aspect of the relationship, only for him to be the man when having sex, rubbish. Nigerian men these days dont want to work hard, they look for girls  with prospects, those from rich home and before you know it, they give you 10 page list of financial problems they have and how they will be happier if you can give them the mony. They do not ask for loan but free money.  I HATE LAZY AND SHAMELESS GUYS WITH PASSION.  A man is not a man if he cannot take care of his family/woman financially. THESE LAZY MEN SHOULD CONSIDER TAKING TWO JOBS IF ONE IS NOT BRINGING ENOUGH INCOME, BUT NO, THEY PREFER TO BEG MONEY FROM STUPID WOMEN WHO WILL GIVE THEM THE MONEY. Giving a guy money does not make him love you more, and will not make him marry you, motivate him into knowing what it really means to be a man and he will become hardworking.

first of, why did he not marry the girlfriend when she got pregnant for him so all of them with the baby will be a family? If she was good enough for him to date and sleep with, she should be good enough for him to marry since she had a child for him.  The only reason i will consider marrying a guy whose ex girlfriend had a child for is if the girl refused to marry him when he proposed. If he got a girl pregnant and refused to marry her, then he is an irresponsible person and will not make a good husband. If the child is a boy, you have to live with the fact that the first son in  the family is not yours, i know a lot of females in this website are saying they will marry him, but they are not being honest. I had a guy that wanted to  marry me but the only reason I did not marry him was that he had a son by his ex girlfriend and  would not tell me why he did not marry her when she got pregnant for him. I recently watched a Tyra Banks show on this same issues and guy she interviewed were complaining that each time they went out th on a date with a girl they love, the first question she will ask is if the guy has a child from previous relationship, if the guy says yes, that will be the last time  he will hear from the girl. So Trya and the guys were shocked and when she interviewed some girls, they said they will not want to date  nor marry  a guy with a child from previous relationship.  ABOUT 3O YEARS AGO, WOMEN WOULD MARRY A GUY WITH A CHILD BUT THESE DAYS, ONLY  FEW WOMEN WILL DO THAT.

nice post .  if you do the right thing, you reap the benefits that come along with it. Obey God and you will be happy, end of discussion!!

this is the most stupid and  senseless post i have come across. i cannot believe someone in their right senses is encouraging infidelity in marriage. POSTER, TELL ALL MEN TO FORGIVE THEIR CHEATING WIVES ALSO AND SEE WHAT THE GUYS REACTION WILL BE. senseless post!!!!!!

thanks a lot poster. This is the root of the problem we are having in our society today. people want to engage in sex against the way the creator of sex planned it to be. If you bite the finger that feeds you, I wonder how the rest of your life will be. This is why marriages fail  and families are not happy because most partners have been involved with someone else before getting married and sex is a scared thing. You can never run away from  ties with the person you slept with no matter how much pretence you put up by saying that " you moved on and put the past behind you" The solution is that if you have  not engaged in premarital sex,  do not be tempted to succumb to the pressure of doing so. If you do it God's way, you will have a happy married life.

the guy is stupid for being the first to  start the comparison issue, i bet the girl's comment was because the guy did the comparison. The guy needs to stay away from being in a relationship and solve whatever issues he has with himself before getting into a relationship else he will keep comparing ( vocally or in his thoughts) and will keep moving from one relationship to another until he dies of emotional trauma. These are the type of people that make love look like it is wicked.

I dont believe in premarital sex, it is wrong according to God's rule. It does not make a relationship better instead it hurts relationships. People that insist on  having sex with their partner with the excuse that they want to make sure the guy is not impotent or that the girl has virgina/womb...,  I think that excuse is lame. What if you have sex with a guy before marriage and  then right after the wedding, the guy becomes impotent for no reason, what will happen? What if a guy has sex  before marriage with a girl and  right after wedding, the girl develope problems with her virgina/womb what will he do?
THE BOTTOM LINE IS, PEOPLE SHOULD STOP USING LAME EXCUSES TO SATISFY THEIR segxwal URGE THROUGH PREMARITAL SEX, IF U WANT TO HAVE PREMARITAL SEX, JUST TELL YOUR PARTNER U JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX, DO NOT PRETEND THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU WANT TO MAKE SURE THEIR REPRODUCTIVE PART IS OKAY BEFORE MARRIAGE, THAT IS SILLY. Anything can happen to anyone at any time.  I HAVE SEEN A LOT OF MARRIED PEOPLE THAT NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND THEY ARE NOW HAPPILY MARRIED WITH KID, AND I HAVE SEEN A LOT OF MARRIED PEOPLE WHO HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND NOW THEY HAVE ISSUES IN THEIR MARRIED LIFE. THE BEST WAY IS ALWAYS GOD'S WAY, NO HUMAN CAN BRING A BETTER SOLUTION TO THIS ISSUE THAN GOD. AND GOD'S WAY IS NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND SEX WITH ONLY UR PARTNER AFTER MARRIAGE, THAT WILL GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN THE FAMILY.

Run!!!!, when he had the chance   he abused it, if you let him into your life  again he will treat you bad the second time. He does not love you at all and will never love you. He is just looking for free sex. If you love yourself run!!!. I know the  urge  will  be there for you to take him back and hurt  him the way he hurt u in the past but do not revenge, let God be the judge.

I really dont know why some men choose to decieve themselves with the  idea that there are more women in the world  than men. If  you want real and accurate statistics from 2010, visit the government websites that talked about this issue   based on census and accurate data not some  personal websites where some men write what they wish should be the case. Have you ever wondered why some men spend  over 8 years looking for a wife,  some of my male friends have been looking for a wife for years and they keep lamenting about it.

Karma is a bitch. He will meet a girl  he loves so much and marry her, only to be treated like shit for the rest of his life, that is how it works. She should move on with her life, she will definitely get a man that will truly love her and she will be happy for the rest of her life.

Marriage is an important issue and should not be taken lightly. If you rush into marriage, chances are that you will rush out of it. When a man proposes to a woman, it means the man has given it a thought for aa long time ( may be 6 months or one year), and he concluded that he loves this girl enough to spend the rest of his life with her. He took time to think about this before making the proposal, so it will also be expected and reasonable that the girl should be allowed enough time to think about if she love the guy  enough to marry him and if she can live with some of his bad characters. Even if there are aleady dating for some time before the guy proposes, it is fair that he allows the girl  a reasonable amount of time to think it through. But if she is taking more than  6 months to come up with an answer, then the guy should consider proposing to another girl because the answer he will get is definitely a NO. Also ladies, if you are dating a man  that is 30 years and over , and  he did not propose to you 6 months  or less into the relationship, look for another guy because he will never propose nor marry you.  ANYTHING OVER SIX MONTH FOR A GUY AND A GIRL MEANS THE OTHER PERSON SHOULD CONSIDER LOOKING FOR ANOTHER PARTNER.

hahaha, this is funny. how do you know he  is  not attracted to virgins? is there a particular way to attract virgins?  Honestly, there are a lot of virgins out there and because they are reserved, they dont do things that will entice a man, and so men think there are no more virgins out there. Poster, if you want a virgin, make sure you are a virgin. Dont be looking for a virgin after you have disvirgined another man's wife because you will not get a virgin as a wife, another man will disvirgin your wife before she marries you. I know some men are excited about marrying a virgin but if you are one of them , dont disvirgin another man's wife. LOL!!!!!!

sex does not  show true love. If the man loves his wife, he should be able to  accomodate the fact that she does not wasnt to have sex all the time, he should be able to control his sex drive. Not having enough sex is not enough reason for a man to cheat on his wife, except the fact that he is already wayward and does not respect himself. On the other hand women should not intentionally deny their husband sex for both of them should enjoy it.  I hate it when  men give flimsy excuse like not having enough sex as the reason for cheating on their wives, we all know it is a big lie, the truth is that that particular man would cheat even if his wife gives him sex every minute of the day. As far as i know, it depends on the man, how much respect he has for himself to know that it is ugly for so many women to describe what his private part looks like his private part in a heart beat. Those type of men are not only a shame to themselves  but to their wives and children.  God created male and female and knows we can function without having sex which is why he commanded that the unmarried should not have sex, he knows male and female can stay without having sex when they are unmarried, so i dont understand  fake idea people come up with about men having a nature that wont allow them control their sex drive. But in this case, they are married, no partner should deny the other, but the man should discuss with his wife to know if she is physically and psychologically okay........

Crap!! He was just looking for a way to get out of a relationship that he is tired of. He is done with that relationship long time ago before he broke up with you,  he was just looking for an easy way out, a way to make you feel guilty after he left, so that he does not take the blame. Forget about him, he does not love you.  How will he break up with you just because you went out with someone. If he was serious about your relationship, he would have done some investigation and if there are evidence that you did something with the other person, then he has good reason to breakup with you, but he never took the time to investigate which is a pointer that he has been looking  for the slightest opportunity to break up with you. Thanks your stars that he is gone, you will get  someone that really loves you.