to be honest, if i was her, i would probably not want to marry you for your bad english, just putting my two cents in o.  Jokes apart, "ur friends say", the girl don reassure you say na u im love, you don go meet her family and dem don say no abi you just want post for posting sake. You do not have an issue yet! until you go ask for her hand in marriage and then they say no, then you start worrying, until den abeg stop posting bicos ur english is very very very confusing. I wan laugh die.

God dont like ugly means when you ppl bad, god dont like it, it will always come back to haunt you.  Meaning god no dey sleep

hmn, which kind question be this, dem no dey love, date again before person settle down, is he just going to settle down with the other one bicos "she's boxed up", how about dating and fallin gin love and all that good stuff.....at least he knows the character of the first one, they have dated and they know each oda. .who is to say that the oda one no go make am wash im pant wen im marry am bicos "she boxed up".. Didn't know boxed up was a marriage criteria o...naija man

Unfortunately the law in vietnam is death for drug.  sentence of death is supposed to be a deterrent so that people will not carry or indulge in drugs at all, he's obviously been doing it and was finally caught, maybe if we imposed stricter rules in nigeria and imposed the laws once these laws are broken then maybe, just maybe nigeria might just be a better place, now i 'm not glorifying the death penalty dont get me wrong, yes nigeria is hard and ladi ladi dah but in life we always have "a Choice". He could have not indulged in drug dealing since that is one of the crimes that the asians do not joke with. .... Eya, lets hope that our government intervenes and his life is spared. ....i really pray for him though sha... wat a pity. Vietnam again,... no where wen we no dey.

God dont like ugly, dats all i can say, what goes around comes around, you know what maybe this is a blessing in disguise, how she take know whether while she dey born this guy pikin sef she go survive, maybe they do get married and what if she now, will he stick by her through sickness and health, you know what sometimes god gives us signs in mysterious ways and we ignore then.  First of all na the girl i blame, why date anyone for so long.... there were way too many signs that she refused to see, now he impregnates someone and wants the baby, i'm sorry, no man who says they love you will allow you destroy something of theirs (ready or not ready), no one is ever ready for a child, it comes when it comes.. i had somewhat similar story... had a baby (though my case is reversed, didnt want it because my parents would kill me, he wanted it becos he wanted to start a family), best decision i ever made, had my daughter and i have to say i am extremely happy, man who loves you will love you, cherish you and stay with you with one baby or two babies... that nigerian mentality where everyone likes to deceive themselves meanwhile dem don do like 10 different abortions, then turn their nose up on ppl who have kids outside wedlock is sooooo wrong.  i was woman enough, manned up gave birth to my baby and loving the hell out of her... so now there's a stronglikelihood that this girl might not be able to have any more babies bicos she was trying to please a man.... eya. Anyway, tell her to take heart and NOT DO ANYTHING DRASTIC. Do not even think of killing yourself or him or wateva. There is a man out there for you and remember WHAT GOES AROUND, DEFINITELY COMES AROUND....believe me GOD DONT LIKE UGLY.

God dont like ugly, dats all i can say, what goes around comes around, you know what maybe this is a blessing in disguise, how she take know whether while she dey born this guy pikin sef she go survive, maybe they do get married and what if she now, will he stick by her through sickness and health, you know what sometimes god gives us signs in mysterious ways and we ignore then.  First of all na the girl i blame, why date anyone for so long.... there were way too many signs that she refused to see, now he impregnates someone and wants the baby, i'm sorry, no man who says they love you will allow you destroy something of theirs (ready or not ready), no one is ever ready for a child, it comes when it comes.. i had somewhat similar story... had a baby (though my case is reversed, didnt want it because my parents would kill me, he wanted it becos he wanted to start a family), best decision i ever made, had my daughter and i have to say i am extremely happy, man who loves you will love you, cherish you and stay with you with one baby or two babies... that nigerian mentality where everyone likes to deceive themselves meanwhile dem don do like 10 different abortions, then turn their nose up on ppl who have kids outside wedlock is sooooo wrong.  i was woman enough, manned up gave birth to my baby and loving the hell out of her... so now there's a stronglikelihood that this girl might not be able to have any more babies bicos she was trying to please a man.... eya. Anyway, tell her to take heart and NOT DO ANYTHING DRASTIC. Do not even think of killing yourself or him or wateva. There is a man out there for you and remember WHAT GOES AROUND, DEFINITELY COMES AROUND....believe me GOD DONT LIKE UGLY.