Hey Guyz, i will really appreciate if u guyz can help solve this puzzle for a friend of mine,he's so confused and don't know what to do;he is currently dating a girl of the same age with him both of them are 25 and he is been disturbed to settle down by the girl but the girl in question has some questionable characters,meanwhile in his office he also has a lady who's just a friend,the lady is somehow in love with this guy and she's about 29/30 yrs old but the lady is nice and a good wife material,though the lady is well boxed-up,but the guy is confused because of the age and financial status of the lady,the lady is more boxed up dan the guy. please your honest opinion is needed whom do u think the guy should settle for?
Posted: at 13-04-2011 08:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 13-04-2011 09:09 AM (14 years ago) (f)
What do you mean by "the lady is somehow in love with this guy"?It is or it is not! Maybe she doesn't even take him in consideration for such a thing! Let him find out what that lady wants first!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 13-04-2011 09:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
hmn, which kind question be this, dem no dey love, date again before person settle down, is he just going to settle down with the other one bicos "she's boxed up", how about dating and fallin gin love and all that good stuff.....at least he knows the character of the first one, they have dated and they know each oda. .who is to say that the oda one no go make am wash im pant wen im marry am bicos "she boxed up".. Didn't know boxed up was a marriage criteria o...naija man
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Many use this platform to practice lying, they say i quote:help solve this puzzle for a friend of mine. come out plain to say the truth, or tell ur so called friend to register also to benefit from naija pal. afterall he is ur friend. the truth
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Joethedude at 13-04-2011 02:39 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kindest on 13-04-2011 01:51 PM
Many use this platform to practice lying, they say i quote:help solve this puzzle for a friend of mine. come out plain to say the truth, or tell ur so called friend to register also to benefit from naija pal. afterall he is ur friend. the truth
Abeg make you tell am. And which one come be box up again?
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:39 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bibismall at 14-04-2011 02:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
What does he know about about love and settling down at 25? Does he fink marriage is something dat u just jump into wifout experience? Very funny! he should go and read his books and fink of better fins to do for now, when he is old enough to settle he wouldn't come to naija pals asking for opinions, he would have gained enough experience to help him choose who he wants after all na im dey date the gal not naija pals...
he is the one wearing the shoes, so he should know where it hurts, here in naija pals, the best these people can do is to do a guess work. So, go home, settle down, map out want u want in the next five years, work towards it and make urself useful to ur family and to the society. Love tins, should be later tins!
The price of life is not for starters but for finishers".
Posted: at 14-04-2011 02:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
What does he know about about love and settling down at 25? Does he fink marriage is something dat u just jump into wifout experience? Very funny! he should go and read his books and fink of better fins to do for now, when he is old enough to settle he wouldn't come to naija pals asking for opinions, he would have gained enough experience to help him choose who he wants after all na im dey date the gal not naija pals...
he is the one wearing the shoes, so he should know where it hurts, here in naija pals, the best these people can do is to do a guess work. So, go home, settle down, map out want u want in the next five years, work towards it and make urself useful to ur family and to the society. Love tins, should be later tins!
Girl, I wish your opinion here could be printed out and sent to the guy. You said exactly what I would have said and more. I don't think that guy ready for settling down right now. Besides, I don't see any of the two ladies as his life partner.
Posted: at 14-04-2011 03:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Guyz please don't misunderstand my statement;the guy in question likes the girl in his office but don't want to approach her because of her status(don't want to give her wrong impression that he likes her cos of her wealth),on the other hand the girl have always indirect give the guy a green light that she wants him...now the confusion is that he is already with another girl of same age who is disturbing him for marriage but she has some questionable character,meanwhile the other lady is nice and well behaved,he wants to know ur opinion about who to go for before he makes a mistakes.thanx
stop beating around the bush. you know age is not an issue here. he is not married to the age mate. Love still plays a role in marriage. is he ready to marry at 25? if so, let him go for the girl he is most in love wif! but, come to think of it...are u sure its nt the money that draws him to the ''boxed up'' girl?
Posted: at 14-04-2011 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Joethedude at 14-04-2011 11:08 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Liliya on 14-04-2011 03:12 PM
Quote from: galantvehe on 14-04-2011 08:07 AM
Guyz please don't misunderstand my statement;the guy in question likes the girl in his office but don't want to approach her because of her status(don't want to give her wrong impression that he likes her cos of her wealth),on the other hand the girl have always indirect give the guy a green light that she wants him...now the confusion is that he is already with another girl of same age who is disturbing him for marriage but she has some questionable character,meanwhile the other lady is nice and well behaved,he wants to know ur opinion about who to go for before he makes a mistakes.thanx
stop beating around the bush. you know age is not an issue here. he is not married to the age mate. Love still plays a role in marriage. is he ready to marry at 25? if so, let him go for the girl he is most in love wif! but, come to think of it...are u sure its nt the money that draws him to the ''boxed up'' girl?
I have a feeling the guy wants to "eat his cake and still have it" Why the confusion? If he doesn't know what he wants from the woman he is going to marry, tell him to wait till he is sure of what he wants. Choosing a wife/husband is about weighing one's options against what one wants.
By the way, please educate me a bit. Does "boxed up" mean fat, or fat wallet?
Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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