assessment is the key, having accessed her thoroughly and you are not satisfied with her, let your husband know and state the reasons to him, but let your reasons for rejecting her be genuine. I think both of you can sort that out...

I think for an ifidel partner, something must be wrong, for every act a person engages in there is a cause. I am of the opinion that such sould be given a second chance if he/she has geniunlly turn from the act of infidelity. Both sould talk about the challange and address it together, also forgive your partner and move on together. Most Importantly, seek God and submit to Him absolutely as you commit your relationship to His care and direction through Christ Jesus. Most relationship problems can be traced to lack of God's presence in the life of couples though they attend church services, but the word of God is not in their heart and in their spirit to lead and guide them in the affairs of life. So therefore seek God and live by His word and your relationship will be blissful.

PERSONAL RESPONSE TO SOCIAL ISSUES ON PEPPER
Submission to the husband is not a choice, rather it is an instruction from God to all Godly women "Christian Woman". The fulfillment of marriage life depends on how much a wife obeys God's instruction by submitting absolutely to her husband. The institution of marriage comes from God, and He alone has the solution, therefore if we His people really want to enjoy marriage, submission is a condition for a fulfilled marriage life.

Let me add that submission is not a sign of weakness on the part of the wife, rather it is strength in a woman who posses this rear quality. It is actually gracesious and loveable for wives to naturally submit themselves to their husbands in obedient to God's instruction. Such wives enjoys the bliss of marriage, they are also covered with the glory of God and they never lack the love of their husband especially when they keep the spirit of submission without condition. They also enjoy the fellowship and love of others. It is a great honor for wives to submit to their own husband, because in so doing they win the love of their husband and that of their children including in-laws e.t.c.
Today, It appears that this virtue is rear amongst wives, even christian wives. But the truth remains that submission is a must according to the scriptures for every woman who desire to enjoy a fulfilled marriage life in this world and the husband most love the wife unconditionally.

Submission to the husband is not a choice, rather it is an instruction from God to all Godly women "Christian Woman". The fullfillment of marriage life depends on how much a wife obeys God's instruction by submitting absolutely to her husband. The institution of marriage comes from God, and He alone has the solution, therefore if we His people really want to enjoy marriage submission is a condition for a fullfilled marriage life.

It's not a supprise to me, why will they not be involve in such acts, considering the kind of people they ar :-\e...