{ Speak-Out} Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance? (Page 2)

 

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Posted: at 13-03-2013 11:00 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

Should be giving as many chance as long as he cheats

Posted: at 14-03-2013 02:43 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You people forget that humans do tend to make mistakes..and if you really love that person and you know that person loves you too but just happend to make a mistake..one SHOULD forgive him/her.. Remember God has given you all a second Chance.. Well, Man no be God

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Posted: at 14-03-2013 08:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

a cheating partner will continue to cheat, and he wldnt have done dat in d first place if he truly respected or loved you.

Posted: at 14-03-2013 10:12 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

my namesake, u nid to ask urself, HONESTLY, hw many cheats stop cheating? Ur ansa wil give an ansa to d question ure askin us. At least wen we sin n truly repent, God 4gives us. I gues u knw wat repentance means. U urself, can u continualy take back an unrepentant cheat? No be wetin dey make som women put laxative 4 deir husband fud? Or cut deir dick bcos of deir unrepentant cheatin ways? D tin is, we humans r difrent.wat u tolerate, i may nt tolerate. Wat i tolerate, u may nt tolerate. Since its so, u mustnt always judge me. Forgivin a partner doesnt mean u must take he or she back. U jst want to free urself of hurt bt ure nt ready 4 anoda hurt dat wud happen. If u knw u cnt tolerate cheatin, u tel ur partner frm d 1st day u meet n if he or she does it, u walk out b4 u make sombody bleed. Any man who forces me to tolerate his continuous cheatin wants me to make him to make him bleed or wants to turn me to a murderer.i dnt want anybody to make me sin so i wont tolerate it. Afta all, it was bcos of israelites' continuous disobedience dat made God to xtend his convenant to odas lyk us who luv him n remove it frm dem. Dey took his forgiveness 4 granted. Humans generaly take forgiveness 4 granted. Tolerance has limit bcos we r nt robots. Shikena.

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Posted: at 14-03-2013 10:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes, oda errors he may commit, i can forgive bt cheatin? MBANU!! Cos cheatin neva stops. Infact, ask pple who cheat dey wil tel u dat its a habit dats hard to stop. Any1 who cheats 4 fun n adventure can neva stop cheatin bcos its a habit n a part of dem u cnt take away. Just as u cnt take d streets frm a gangstar. Its inborn in dem.

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Posted: at 14-03-2013 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

it might be easy to say but very hard to let go.

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:10 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Agreed!!

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:40 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

"Sometimes goodbye is a second chance"

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac