Spoken like a true intellectual. The poster has insecurity issues cos I see no reason why the refusal of his wife to allow their son to be sent to a boarding school is proof that he is not their son...I went to a boarding school myself, this made me worse in all manners. I became a terror and got suspended 8 times and finally expelled, I even beat up my senior boarding house mistress. I had no courtesy for anyone and when the wanted to discipline me, I would tell them they weren't my parents.  The truth of the whole issue is that I feared my parents more than any teacher, but they did not know how to work on that and instead of disciplining me themselves, they sent me to the wrong people and expected those ones to do their job for them. Boarding school makes children worse cos they are far from parents and feel they are free at last, your kid could even be beaten to death. Be wise

first of all mr poster, don't even think that by enrolling your son to boarding school will bring a change of attitude.nope! it can even worsen his behavior.besides which boarding school are you talking about? Nigerian boarding school is a mess! and i won't recommend parents to take their children to any.pal the best discipline a any child can get,is that from the parents.you missed out in the early stage to understand and discipline your child ,which prompted this negative behaviors .there is this "ill attitude" most nigerian fathers always put on that make me sick..if a child is misbehaving they'll put the whole blame to the mother but if he/she is doing according to their expectation then, they'll be fast to claim the whole praises..

pal sit your wife down,communicate with her and resolve this issue like two well grown adult.all hope is not lost, your son is still a teenager that's gradually heading to adulthood.a child has stages in life that also needs different approaches.don't expect to treat a 15yrs old kid like that of 6-8yrs and expect a change of attitude,it won't work.try and know you child,get that fatherly connection to him then you will be able to re-shape his current behavior.for me no child is stubborn it all depends how he/she was raised.even the Bible said it in the book of proverbs 22vs 6.Train up a child in the way he should go,and when he is old,he will not depart from it. so pal start now and engage in your responsibility as the head of the house.goodluck!

My own Analysis of the video, is that the Girl knows those guys and where they stay, i clearly heard her mention two names, UCHENNA and WISDOM,i want to believe that one of them must be her friend, and i doubt if the girl is in university, Get the girl you get the guys there is no need of going into long investigation, and also is either the poster or his friend that gave him the video was among the guys.but honestly i didnt feel any fear from the girls voice, she looked a bit  relaxed, probably because she knew them; and from the guys voice and the girls dialect, am suspecting that this incident happened at Enugu and not Abia,because i stayed at Enugu for 4 years so i can identify their dialect. so my beloved pals, the girl is the only key to get these guys.   

mariage