Please house advise me on what to do cos I'm confuse. there is this girl I'm seriously in love with, and i have promised to marry her, but some times last year ending i found out that she is dating another guy and in the course of doing that she took in and went and abort the baby without my concent. until one day when she was very sick and admitted to hospital of which i spent a night with her in the hospital watching over her cos she was on drip. and she spent three days in there, so after serial test that was carried on her, doctor now discovered that she did an abortion. i was so suprise that day, so i asked her why did she took in and she didn't let me know and went ahead to abort the in norcent baby but she couldn't reply my question. after every thing, i paid her hospital bill which i paid the sum of N23000 and later to found out that my money was shared among the so called my girl, her mother and the doctor. cos i never knew that the second guy has already paid her bills. so finally i was able to understand that it was that guy that pregnated her and that's why she couldn't tell me about the pregnant and went for the abortion. And now the abortion affected her womb and doctors has confirmed that she can not conceive anymore. and at the same time she is calling me to forgive her and take her back after every thing. But my own problem here is that i loves her so daring and she knew it. so i don't know the right thing to do now. i need a help so i won't make a wrong decision. |