Please house advise me on what to do cos I'm confuse. there is this girl I'm seriously in love with, and i have promised to marry her, but some times last year ending i found out that she is dating another guy and in the course of doing that she took in and went and abort the baby without my concent. until one day when she was very sick and admitted to hospital of which i spent a night with her in the hospital watching over her cos she was on drip. and she spent three days in there, so after serial test that was carried on her, doctor now discovered that she did an abortion. i was so suprise that day, so i asked her why did she took in and she didn't let me know and went ahead to abort the in norcent baby but she couldn't reply my question. after every thing, i paid her hospital bill which i paid the sum of N23000 and later to found out that my money was shared among the so called my girl, her mother and the doctor. cos i never knew that the second guy has already paid her bills. so finally i was able to understand that it was that guy that pregnated her and that's why she couldn't tell me about the pregnant and went for the abortion. And now the abortion affected her womb and doctors has confirmed that she can not conceive anymore. and at the same time she is calling me to forgive her and take her back after every thing. But my own problem here is that i loves her so daring and she knew it. so i don't know the right thing to do now. i need a help so i won't make a wrong decision.
Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:23 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
sweetnsassy1 at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Oh, I am sorry to tell you because I am sure you may be angry but truely my advice is do not marry her. It seems to me that you were seriously taken advantage of, consider this a learning lesson and the money gone to charity....and find a woman who will not treat you like a door stop. I am sorry for your situation.
Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 13-02-2009 12:30 AM (16 years ago) (f)
forget her, she played games and now that it has ended her up in shit , let her stay in the shit look for a better chick ok
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:30 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
raskydammy at 13-02-2009 09:46 AM (16 years ago) (m)
BEFORE THEM KILL YOU RUN ABEG AND NEVER LOOK BACK.....NA THEIR WAY ALL WOMAN ARE THE SAMETHING SORRY TO SAY... KENNEE HELP ME ADVICE THE BOY OOOO, I AM OFF
Posted: at 13-02-2009 09:46 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
ogunfunmi at 7-03-2009 02:53 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: raskydammy on 13-02-2009 09:46 AM
BEFORE THEM KILL YOU RUN ABEG AND NEVER LOOK BACK.....NA THEIR WAY ALL WOMAN ARE THE SAMETHING SORRY TO SAY... KENNEE HELP ME ADVICE THE BOY OOOO, I AM OFF
NO VEX MAKE I LAUGH
Posted: at 7-03-2009 02:53 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chrissiebee at 7-03-2009 03:01 AM (16 years ago) (f)
ha! that gal is a witch! run and leave them orelse...
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 7-03-2009 03:01 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
why are u all advising dis guy?im sure he knows d right thing to do.stay wit the gal oooo if dem ask u wetin do u make u talk say na love dey shack ur head.hisssssss
Posted: at 7-03-2009 01:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
kingdomchild at 7-03-2009 02:23 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Guy, u dont need to be confused. It's obvious d babe in question did not luv u. At d moment, she's feeling very bad and showing some repentance because she knows u to be the 4giving type. Guy, do 4giv her but dont take her back cos she's out to ruin u except of course if u dont want to hav children or bliv so much in God and His power to restore. But why should u be a fool to die before ur time.
My advice in summary is this: 4giv her BUT dont take back. Remain her good friend cos she needs u now.
Posted: at 7-03-2009 02:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie