My Girl Friend Took In For Another Guy

Date: 13-02-2009 12:23 am (16 years ago) | Author: stanley chinedu N.
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- at 13-02-2009 12:23 AM (16 years ago)
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              Please house advise me on what to do cos I'm confuse.  there is this girl I'm seriously in love with, and i have promised to marry her, but some times last year ending i found out that she is dating another guy and in the course of doing that she took in  and went and abort the baby without my concent. until one day when she was very sick and admitted to hospital of which i spent a night with her in the hospital watching over her cos she was on drip.
and she spent three days in there, so after serial test that was carried on her, doctor now discovered that she did an abortion.
i was so suprise that day, so i asked her why did she took in and she didn't let me know and went ahead to abort the in norcent baby but she couldn't reply my question. after every thing, i paid her hospital bill which i paid the sum of N23000 and later to found out that my money was shared among the so called my girl, her mother and the doctor. cos i never knew that the second guy has already paid her bills. so finally i was able to understand that it was that guy that pregnated her and that's why she couldn't tell me about the pregnant and went for the abortion.
  And now the abortion affected her womb and doctors has confirmed that she can not conceive anymore. and at the same time she is calling me to forgive her and take her back after every thing. But my own problem here is that i loves her so daring and she knew it. so i don't know the right thing to do now. i need a help so i won't make a wrong decision.

Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:23 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- sa-fire at 13-02-2009 12:25 AM (16 years ago)
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dont take her back.. she is too wicked.

Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:25 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sweetnsassy1 at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago)
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Oh, I am sorry to tell you because I am sure you may be angry but truely my advice is do not marry her. It seems to me that you were seriously taken advantage of, consider this a learning lesson and the money gone to charity....and find a woman who will not treat you like a door stop. I am sorry for your situation.
Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago)
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l no fit Read.... But na yu know how yu Played yur Part wey yu let dat one Happen

Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:29 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 13-02-2009 12:30 AM (16 years ago)
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forget her, she played games  and now that it has ended her up in shit , let her stay in the shit
look for a better chick ok

Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:30 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 13-02-2009 12:31 AM (16 years ago)
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i read only the topic....that alone xplains the whole saga.
Guy abeg...find your square root.
Posted: at 13-02-2009 12:31 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Rify at 13-02-2009 01:00 AM (16 years ago)
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SHIT HAPPENS!
GET OVER IT

Posted: at 13-02-2009 01:00 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ogunfunmi at 13-02-2009 03:05 AM (16 years ago)
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that girl na devil the mother na witch  just let her go please or else this time around you dont know what she and her mother are planning next
Posted: at 13-02-2009 03:05 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Resi at 13-02-2009 09:08 AM (16 years ago)
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Take a walk.

Posted: at 13-02-2009 09:08 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SAmyrocko at 13-02-2009 09:29 AM (16 years ago)
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hmm. bullshit!!!!!!!!!!!!! flee

Posted: at 13-02-2009 09:29 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- raskydammy at 13-02-2009 09:46 AM (16 years ago)
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BEFORE THEM KILL YOU RUN ABEG AND NEVER LOOK BACK.....NA THEIR WAY ALL WOMAN ARE THE SAMETHING SORRY TO SAY... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin KENNEE HELP ME ADVICE THE BOY OOOO, I AM OFF
Posted: at 13-02-2009 09:46 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ogunfunmi at 7-03-2009 02:53 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: raskydammy on 13-02-2009 09:46 AM
BEFORE THEM KILL YOU RUN ABEG AND NEVER LOOK BACK.....NA THEIR WAY ALL WOMAN ARE THE SAMETHING SORRY TO SAY... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin KENNEE HELP ME ADVICE THE BOY OOOO, I AM OFF
NO VEX MAKE I LAUGH Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 7-03-2009 02:53 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- daysolar at 7-03-2009 02:59 AM (16 years ago)
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shit it... sorry
Posted: at 7-03-2009 02:59 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chrissiebee at 7-03-2009 03:01 AM (16 years ago)
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ha! that gal is a witch! run and leave them orelse...

Posted: at 7-03-2009 03:01 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 7-03-2009 03:17 AM (16 years ago)
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4get abt her jare

Posted: at 7-03-2009 03:17 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kelzteady at 7-03-2009 01:34 PM (16 years ago)
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maybe she  doesnt deserve you. sorry man!
Posted: at 7-03-2009 01:34 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bilol at 7-03-2009 01:41 PM (16 years ago)
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why are u all advising dis guy?im sure he knows d right thing to do.stay wit the gal oooo if dem ask u wetin do u make u talk say na love dey shack ur head.hisssssss
Posted: at 7-03-2009 01:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kingdomchild at 7-03-2009 02:23 PM (16 years ago)
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Guy, u dont need to be confused. It's obvious d babe in question did not luv u. At d moment, she's feeling very bad and showing some repentance because she knows u to be the 4giving type. Guy, do 4giv her but dont take her back cos she's out to ruin u except of course if u dont want to hav children or bliv so much in God and His power to restore. But why should u be a fool to die before ur time.

My advice in summary is this: 4giv her BUT dont take back. Remain her good friend cos she needs u now.
Posted: at 7-03-2009 02:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- ogunfunmi at 8-03-2009 06:14 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 13-02-2009 09:29 AM
hmm. bullshit!!!!!!!!!!!!! flee
bull isegi
Posted: at 8-03-2009 06:14 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Oceandrive at 8-03-2009 02:36 PM (16 years ago)
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Love indeed! Pls my dear, don't be selfish. Take a walk.

Posted: at 8-03-2009 02:36 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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