Either way, you have to be prepared for a tournament not just a visit, hope you dey hear me. Then on the other side be security conscious, try to meet first in a restaurant that is not to busy and not too quiet.
If she does such, just take a shower, dress up and arrange a meeting with a male friend at joint to just eat or drink without mentioning such to that your friend or go to a theater to watch film and after come home to sleep. do say a word about it. next morning greet her as if nothing happened.