It is a big problem at a time in every guy's life. I once had similar problems not just in approaching a lady but also in speaking in public. I discovered that training and environment are very essential in this respect. I squashed mine by joining the literary debating society. those days we use to rehearse b4 approaching but results were not certain but with practice there were a few successes even at that time. today i prepare good speeches and i'm always confident to speak yet without having a plan of what to say and how to say it. pple dat agree dat i don't use to dress expensively bcos i feel wat a person is made of(education, philosophy, character and attitude and aptitude) is found in his speech. First know that nobody will report u to any goddam teacher. start with hello, comment on the situation around, ask a question and express interest in the lady if by her own speech she makes sense. read public speaking books. also know that maany of them ladies are seriously searching 4anything called a guy and some want a change. u might just be d right person she's been searching 4. ladies love bold guys more than anything. that's y ....love criminals. |