The Bible is against divorce except on the grounds of infidelity.

Mt 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. JESUS SAID THIS.

Why should there be a divorce in the first place? i do not support that, whoever that is into it should ask God for forgiveness, becasue no matter how the situation it, no matter how the problem is between 2 people, they should take it to God, he is the only solution to it, he will direct their part and give them ways to tolerate each other, than divorce, the bible speak against it. the bible say how many times shall ur brother offend u and u forgive, 70x7 so u can see that it has not even reached to that level, u can still find it in your heart to forgive one another.  We should learn how to Love one another

I didn't read that article; too long  . But I'm still throwing in my view. I think divorce depends on a lot of things. It should be the last resort, like after you've tried to make it work and there still aren't any changes, then you should look into it. I don't think anyone should stay in an unhappy, abusive or whatever-the-problem-is marriage. Of course, it has to be a big problem. And all the people saying it's wrong to divorce, would you want to stay in an unhappy or abusive relationship? There're many reasons why people divorce: abuse (and this can go both ways -women also abuse, and it's isn't just physical, there's also emotional abuse...like name-calling, controlling or being too authoritative, etc), constant cheating, falling out of love (yea, it happens), financial reasons, or even marrying for the wrong reasons in the first place and finding out this isn't the person you're meant to be with. It all depends on the situation, especially if you've kids and your hubby or wife's abusive...you've to put them first and decide whether you want tor raise them in that kind of environment. And with abuse, it's not always easy to leave, especially if it's one of those extreme cases where the man throws threats...I think that's one of the reasons most women stay in those relationships (besides the fact that they think he'll change somehow, someday) because they're afraid for their lives and the lives of their family, while staying itself poses another danger. So it depends on the situation. You have to do what's right for you and if it's the last resort and the only solution, then do what you gotta do. If it's something that can be worked out, then of course try your best to do that and make it work. But if all else fails, then make the right decision for yourself.

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Wao. this one no be any big thing, which lagos shakara lady want to show me say she too hot for me except abi jaru or nigga snoop, jazy or richana if wana woo lagos lady it is most easiest thing. but i don't even like lagos girls or lady. be careful hiv dey ground and origin is lagos babe carriers.

be  loaded wit  money

Be honest and true to yoursef.Don't pretend to be what you are not. A good and homely woman can sense sincerity which is a priceless weapon to win a woman's heart. You should also learn her core values and culture.
Wish u all da best.

My man,ochendu gave u the answer a long tym ago..Left to me i'ld say money+swagger+fine boy=YESSSS! But i'v seen ur picture and i think u'ld get on fine with only money and swagger......?No offense meant

dont it mean that there is no beautiful girl in ur country

It aint abt the money if the gal admires ur way then she wud fall for u~!!

Yes, i agree wit the last girl's advice.

do u have money then God will take care of others

@poster u ve got to becareful cos lagos ain't  water man!most  are dangerous. i share erickakpan's sentiment.u just get to know her n wish u d best man!

just that some girls have really close friends (BFF's) n what thier friends think of u could sway her one way or another.

just be honest, be funny, n be urself.......besides that, hope her friends n family like u.lol

why lots of nigerian ladies are fearless GOLD DIGGERS ,FORTUNE HUNTERS and full of deceits? are there still nice ladies and wife materials??

You know, I change my mind. I dont think U have a problem... U seem to be on top of things.

Equipper abi wetin be Ur name... U want to listen to a woman tell U how to woo a woman she doesnt know... She'l probably tell U what would work for her and U would stupidly go and try that out only to hit a brick wall... U no dey hear word. I'll be waiting for Ur tale after U've hit the bricks with ur love interest. Don't forget to mail me.