Here  are some things you need to do to spice up your marriage and relationshi with your wife or spouse

Aphrodisiacs
Try the natural aphrodisiacs, they work wonders. Wondering what aphrodisiac is? They are S*x stimulants. Some of these aphrodisiacs are readily available in your kitchen. You have chili, curry, cumin, tomatoes, ginseng, lettuce, banana, etc.
Take care of your skin. Visit a spa with the woman you cherish. Spas have steam room that takes two at a time. Spend time together in the steam or sauna. You can ask for a couples massage.

Words, words, sweet words; Words sweeter than honey; Words sweeter than money; Words that can take a woman to another world where she forgets her hurts and pains. This is all a woman needs for a fulfilling life. No amount of money, no amount of wealth, no amount of success can take the place of sweet words in the life of a woman who is indeed a woman (not a woman crazy for wealth).

Please spend this week, filling your woman up with sweet words. Send her text messages and email while at work. Tell her how beautiful she is. Send surprises to her and I tell you she will go places for you. It’s not in the shouting; it’s not in the exotic cars. Guys, there is power in words. Make the world a better place by treating her like a lady.

Though there is no genuine  or good reason  that  a partner in a relationship should cheat on each other 
Though it is  surprising and sinful but there are some basic primary reasons that causes this as we look at it.

One thing has always bothered me about Sex in marriages. A good number of problems in marriages are caused by poor S*x lives. Yet, our religious leaders tend to spiritualize everything. Men, we leave in a physical world, enough of the ‘holier than thou attitude’. The array of media available to us today has made matters worse. When will the churches start handling topics on S*x and stop seeing those who do as carnally minded?
No woman, most of the time will tell you to your face that you have not satisfied them or you are not doing well so as not to hurt your ego or be branded as a wh*re because of the wrong perception in our society.
Rather the results will be that
Your woman will avoid having sex with you most of the time and will be looking for someone outside that will do it better.
Imagine What makes Rich women, married to rich men still go and commit adultery or having it with their drivers, workers, security or house boys or even very young boys that you would not imagine.


Do you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on?
Women love it even more than men if it is done by the right person with the right mindset, styles and knowledge
The problem is basically lack of satisfaction form their partner –period and nothing else.
Get the natural guide that will end  your lack of ability to last long and satisfy your partner to reach orgasms and they will be the one that will even initiate it, glue to you always, tell you that you have done what no one has done and you are the best she has ever had and always even be the one imitating the thing.

Pastors don’t neglect your wife for the ministry
Remember; your first ministry is your home. I recently heard pastors wives are now into the abnormal lifestyle of Lesbianism. You may be surprised that a good percentage of women now practice this. According to them, it is the easiest way to satisfy their S*xual urge without their man becoming suspicious. Guys, please take your place in the lives of women. Pastor, let your PA face her husband. You can travel with your wife.
Well, if your religious leaders have failed to educate you, trust me, I will. Let’s look at the things men do wrong in their S*x lives:
Not creating the right atmosphere for S*x
Believe me; a good number of Nigerian men are guilty of this. A man goes to the beer parlour at the close of work only to return home late at night. The wife, who is exhausted with the kids, gets up to serve dinner with the man shouting on top of his voice over every little mistake. The woman is bitter, confused, and emotionally down when the man starts demanding S*x. Sir, she cannot perform even if she is a magician. S*x, to a woman is not just a physical thing.
Poor hygiene
I have heard men complaining about their women not satisfying them S*xually. Some have had to call off their weddings because they feel the lady isn’t satisfying them. I have been informed by friends and acquaintances that oral S*x have become the in-thing aside the abnormal men who want anal S*x. Some men and their partners have confessed to enjoying it the oral way. Fine, but my question is; did you make out time to trim that pubic hair or have a good warm shower before S*x?
Some men buy body spray every week because it has taken the place of shower. Before S*x, you see them reach for the can just to cover up their foul smell. Boy, your woman knows you are a dirty person and that puts her off. It’s only a cheap woman as dirty as you who can jump in bed with you and begin to take all the rubbish in. If you respect her, you will have your shower and brush and to get her in the mood, give her a scrub in the shower.
HomoS*xuality
Men that are involved in this act often avoid S*x with women while some do it just for doing it sake. I keep wondering why a human being should stop getting attracted to the opposite S*x and decide to settle for same S*x relationship. You want me to respect your choice here; I know we all have the right to choose our way of life. But like OBJ once said, God created man and woman and homos*xuality is a taboo in Africa.
The most disgusting aspect of homoS*xuality is that these men could also go for women. I consider it most despicable putting a woman’s life at risk by your ungodly lifestyle.
Guys don’t use S*x to heal a woman’s emotions after beating her. Only wild animals do. I once heard a pastor say; only cowards beat their women. Its time Nigerian men learn how not to treat a woman.
Excess weight
Your seven months pregnancy (pot belly) could be the cause of your bad S*x life. That woman doesn’t feel comfortable with the two bags of rice on top of her during S*x. Boy, it scares her. Please quit the bottles of beer with too much pounded yam and egusi, go to the gym, trim down your tummy and remember, tummy tuck is for the lazy man. You can’t try those lovely styles if you are not fit.
No foreplay
Boy, she isn’t running away, she is all yours. Don’t descend on her like your regular bowl of pounded yam. It’s really painful knowing that most women engage in S*x just to satisfy their man. She loves you, that’s why she goes the extra mile to get you to the peak of the mountain. Why not do same for her. She needs to know what orgasm is and not just reading about it.
Spend at least the first thirty minutes of love making caressing her, speaking sweet words to her ears, telling her how much you adore her body(even if you don’t).Women need words to excel in life. Please do every thing possible to get your woman to experience orgasm. For you, it shouldn’t be anything short of love making.
You can also decide to make love to her in an unusual place like the kitchen, living room after the kids must have gone to bed. You can take her to a place she has never been or check into a good hotel with her for a weekend. This will bring the sparks back.

Sex is one aspect of life, which we humans cannot overlook. No matter the level of spirituality, no matter the level of timidity or how much we pretend not to be interested in it. Guys, you will agree with me that S*x is a wonderful gift of nature. A lot of things have gone wrong in relationships because this very aspect is being neglected.

Gone are the days when people thought Sex is just for child bearing. A good number of Nigerian men still believe women need S*x just for the fruit of the womb; you are wrong. Research has shown that S*x drive in women drop during the child bearing years. This information you are getting should help change the way you see and treat your wife.

Women, after their child bearing age tend to want S*x more often. It’s quite unfortunate that men often neglect women at this crucial stage of their life. This is why you see ladies of this age go after the gullible gigolos to satisfy their segxwal urge in exchange for money. It’s painful having married women fall into this group either because they are too timid to discuss S*x with their man or because they don’t want to be tagged wayward. Do you now see why it is necessary to get into marriage with your friend?
You may be one of those reading this believing your wife is so innocent because she is a full time housewife. Only the truth will set you free. You better rise to your duty as a husband or have someone else (houseboys and drivers) do it for you. Don’t let her deceive you into thinking it’s not necessary. Believe me, it is. I was surprised getting a mail from a woman whose husband is a medical doctor. This twenty years old mother of three is in pain because her husband uses work as an excuse and comes to her once in three months. She is not alone in this; several other women are.

No woman, most of the time will tell you to your face that you have not satisfied them or you are not doing well so as not to hurt your ego or be branded as a wh*re because of the wrong perception in our society.
Rather the results will be that

Your woman will avoid having sex with you most of the time and will be looking for someone outside that will do it better.
Imagine What makes Rich women, married to rich men still go and commit adultery or having it with their drivers, workers, security or house boys or even very young boys that you would not imagine.


Do you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on?
Women love it even more than men if it is done by the right person with the right mindset, styles and knowledge

The problem is basically lack of satisfaction form their partner –period and nothing else.

Get the natural guide that will end  your lack of ability to last long and satisfy your partner to reach orgasms and they will be the one that will even initiate it, glue to you always, tell you that you have done what no one has done and you are the best she has ever had and always even be the one imitating the thing.

God will help you and deliver you from this state of insanity and you will think and act well and respect your marital vows

it isvery possible if you are in a commiteed relationship and you people have the fear of god and the guy knows that you are his in the near future

You are happy that someone divorce his wife , what is the guarantee that if you marry him , you will not also get a divorce at the long run,.Also think far into the future

Some important  thoughts  on  the subject of love in relationship and marriage to make it work
Hello, for this week for your learning , we are going to look at love as one of the fundamental principle for sustainable relationship and marriage
Here are some principles that  shows that love is very important in order to make any relationship to succeed.
Love is a concept,  that means different things to different people
Love is the important thing in life and God expect us to love all, Mat 22V36-40,Romans 8v 13
Love is more than your feeling
love is deeper and stronger than feeling.
Love is always centre on the other  person .
Love gives advantage to the other person.
Loving someone is about bettering the lot of the other person.
Love is a deliberate choice.
Real love ,the kind that sustains marriage is a deliberate choice.
Love is something that you decide to do. Your mind is involve and it is something that you have decided to do .
The fact that you are in love does not mean that you are not thinking.
love does not disengage your ability to think.
Love is action and it demonstrates love.
Love is reaching out to the other people person no matter what you real .Eccl 9v9
love is all about commitment-doing what you promise to do even when the feelings has gone.
love is a constant, the feeling may be gone. If i love this person ,what will i have done.
love is the fuel that runs our home or life.
seek for the  love in the right way
You have to Marry someone that you say that you truly love and care   about that person
A lover is a winner any day
love is takes  hard work to build

Here are the The true pillars of successful relationship that is lacking in today relationship and even marriage
that has resulted in break up,divorce that you must avoid if your relationship must work out and succeed
1.fidelity
2.friendship
3.trust
4.love
5.co-operation: Co-operating with each other
6.Being able forgivness
7.Pateince
8.The presence of the love and fear of God in the relationship
9. Compatibility
10.Being there for each other

Others should comment and join here

 
1. When you are still behaving immaturely like a boy or girl and not grow up to take up responsibility as a man or woman

2.Lack of effective communication between partner: This is very important for a successful relationship or marriage
 
3. lengthy Relationship: when you relationship is too lengthy without a plan for marriage may wear out the partners in it . Have a plan to move your relationship to marriage or let someone be if you do not want to marry the person in reality and let they know about it.

4.Causing jealously and creating the impression that you are going out with someone else , kills the love the person may have for you.

5. Intolerance: When you do not tolerate and regard your partner again, this could lead to break up.

6. Lack of respect for each other: When both parties in a relationship do not respect each other again , it could lead to break up.
7.When you are impatience: when you are always impatience with your partner when they go wrong or you want a thing to get done by them. That can overtime put your partner off and it could lead to signs of break up.

8.Inconsistency: when you are inconsistent in your actions and words with your partner

9.Pride; When you are two proud of yourself and you do not respect your partner before your friends and family members.

10.Lack of money : This is very important because it takes money to express love in a relationship and you need to have a source of income or business that will help you build and express love in a relationship through gifts to your partner and providing for basic things.
These are some of the things that can break your relationship , for more you can check the link below.

Every relationship at a certain point, usually pass through one   challenge  or the other and one needs have the wisdom, knowledge and issues of how to  save any challenging situation  in order to avoid  any break up in the relationship

You need to first of all do an x-ray of the current situation that you and your partner have found yourselves , do you people cheat on your selves , either you or your partner was the fault in the strains in your relationship , are you people having character or compatibility challenges .You need to ponder on all this deeply , so that it will certainly help you  to save your relationship and avoid any break up.

The starting point is for you to know that this is not the time to put blames on your partner or yourself but a period where you and your partner will be making genuine efforts to save your relationship and avoid a break up.
In order to save any relationship from break up , either one or both of the parties must be willing to make the necessary  sacrifices and compromises in order to bring back the love you both  had  into your life as far as you both deeply know that you cannot really do without each other .

what ever has been the cause of the strain in your relationship , it can be saved whether you or your partner is at fault , what is important now is that your relationship can  be save .Here are some of the steps that you need to use  in saving your relationship and build back a great relationship.

You have to be the person that your partner first met, got attracted to you and you people became friends and eventually got married. Ponder with yourself, what must have been the triggers that attracted your partner to you in the first place that is trying to fade away with time now. Was it your looks or beauty, intelligence or diligence that attracted the both of you to each other.

Women are generally known to appear beautiful and look after their looks in the early stages of their relationships but with time as they got married, they fail to take care of their looks or body like before. Women need to understand that men are generally first attracted by what they see and they expect their women to remain the same way for a long time in appearance, just  the same way the first mate them. So maintain your looks, beauty or character may be the first thing that you need to do in order to save your relationship.

 
In your relationship with your partner must have an agreement that this is a no sex relationship till marriage and must always strive not to put the two of you in situations that may expose the two of you to intimate sins such as staying together or living together, staying for long period or hours in your partner home alone together, dressing provocatively that may lure your partner into intimate sins.



Mostly to women, every intimate encounter brings about wears and tear to them and every pre- marital sex generally , is the quickest and fastest way to destroy yourself as pre-marital sex exposes you to a lot of problems before marriage.

The Bible confirms that in Proverbs 6v32 where is says that anyone that commit adultery lacks understanding and destroys his own soul. I Corinthian states that 6v18 states flee fornication, every sin a man commits is outside the body but whoever commits fornication destroys his own soul.

Proverbs 31v3 states that do not give your strength to women and to the ways that destroys kings .In the listed passage above , the word of God has confirm that and when one does not get involve in intimate sin before marriage , it is expected that about 60% of the problems in marriage is already solved.

Just look at the six possible things that will happen to any one that get involve in pre-marital sex include
1. The partners when they eventually get married will never respect each other.
2. The marriage will be made up of constant strife
3. They will not trust each other
4. They may certainly be room for unfaithfulness
5. With time, they will lose intimate desire for each other.
6. They may also suffer delays in child bearing due to other problems in their health or reproductive system.
Other problems that pre-marital sex brings include the issues of segxwally transmitted diseases, infertility due to wrong abortions, block tubes ,HIV/AID, remember that condom usage is not completely safe when not used properly used or there may be a tear some where along the line hence the best options is to avoid pre-marital sex before marriage, a word they say is enough for the wise.

When you are married or about doing your wedding, the best thing that you should do in order to spice up your marriage and intimate knowledge in order to have a long lasting relationships. To have a pleasurable intimate relationship in marriage that is long lasting is to get a the recommended quality e-guide that aids one to having great pleasurable sex in your marriage.

       
1.    HOT TEMPER/ANGER : Always displaying a high degree of  anger in your relationship is one of the relationship killers in any relationship. You need to learn how to control your anger and how to show that you are ignore on certain th
   gs witho  ut necessarily turning it into hot anger that  affect  your spouse or partner negatively.

2.   BEING TOO SPIRITUAL: It is very good to put God first in your relationship but it is not the best to allow over spirituality to affect your relationship with your partner like always praying all the time, fasting and going on night prayers without having time to spend with your suppose partner on certain issues that will affect your relationship or marriage now or in the near future. Remember that marriage or relationship is an earthly thing and it is 90% physical.


3.   LACK OF TRUST : Where there is no trust , both parties may be hiding very important things about their lives from each other  such as things that has to do with money , health ,fidelity to each other, paternity of children  and that will definitely kills love in the relationship and the two parties will be doubting and suspecting each other.

4.   DRESSING: This is very important to the ladies, to get your partner to stay with you and be happy , you need to always dress well , not necessarily dressing expensive.. You have to put on well clean and ironed clothes that is appealing and attractive to anyone. Do not say that I am married to Jesus that nobody is looking at you when at the same time you are praying to God for a marriage partner. You need to know that men are first attracted to you, firstly by your physical appearance, that is the true   and then they will move on  to getting  to  know  your character, your spirituality, personal attributes ,background and values before they want to build a relationship with you.

So it all starts with your dressing first.  Please I am not  referring  here  to naked ,half naked, offensive, seductive and immoral dressing that is seen in our society today, Just Dress well as a Christian  and as a discipline person. Men also need to know that women value and appreciate men that dress well, as it is more appealing to their emotions, their perception  of  yourself worth etc.

          5.  BEING IN THE HABITS OF COMPARING YOUR PARTNER WITH OTHERS: It  is  very wrong to be comparing your partner with some other persons  because    no two persons  are  the same. Every person has their own uniqueness and purpose in life and every one is passing through different phases in life that may not be the same with the next person. So to avoid killing your relationship, stop the habit of comparing your partner with someone else whether in terms of character, money , financial standing and career progress  rather  think on how to work on your relationship to make it better etc. A word they say is enough for the wise. Be wise  now, to keep your relationship and grow it into a long lasting blissful marriage.
6.    PRE –MARITAL SEX ; Having pre- marital sex is one of the major killers of relationship even though it is common in our society today. This is just deception from the pit of hell. Pre marital sex kills trust in a relationship as if you can do it outside marriage disobeying God command then your partner may be suspecting you that you are equally cheating on him or her ,others include exposure to STD Diseases, HIV/AIDS , pre marital pregnancy , lack of respects and regard for each other mostly the woman ,abortion  that could lead to barrenness or childlessness  in the future.

1.   Building your relationship base on infatuation: Infatuation here  refers to strong desires ,passions, emotions or feelings that does not last but it is only base on the satisfaction of segxwal desires and not real love.  Examples include Absalom sister TAMAR and her step  brother  AMMON.
2.   Bringing your self low or cheap before the person that you want to even get married to .Bringing yourself low or cheap before anyone will not help build a better relationship. For a woman or young lady to think that having   pre-marital sex with a man will make him to love you more is a lie and you are just giving yourself cheap to the man and men will think that is the way that you have be giving to others even if they were they one that first initiated or putting pressure on you for it , there  will be no trust in the relationship and they will not consider you for a long term relationship or marriage .

3.   Having Pre-marital Sex in a relationship: having premarital sex in a relationship kills trust in the relationship and make mostly the men to lose interest in the relationship because they have gotten all that the woman has to offer in marriage, cheaply and free. Trust in no more there, they may be thinking that their partner is involve in such acts too at their back , it kills the desire for the relationship to move to marriage , exposure to STDS, even HIV, infertility and barrenness, lack of respect for each.

4.   Being overuse before marriage: This one mostly affect the women/ladies the most, when you expose yourself to be seriously used by men by having multiple boyfriends and multiple relationships all at the same time, you will overtime become a subject of discussion by these same men on how they have each of them used you and how you are not good for a long term relationship or marriage but only useful to be used to satisfy their selfish segxwal desires.

5.   When either of the party in the relationship is too demanding: When one of the partners in a relationship is too demanding, it will over time put the other party off.  A good relationship is be one in which is a good and take approach is the best. When there is no mutual   understanding co-operation from both parties in terms of helping each other or one person over demanding from the other. The other party will overtime  re-assess  what they are getting from the relationship and decide whether they should continue or not.

Do not get into a relationship and totally depend on your partner to do everything for you from paying your school fees, rent , buying clothes ,giving money but get into a relationship to help each other succeed in their ambitions in order to build a relationship that will last and lead to marriage.

There are basic ways of maintaining God expected standards in our relationships leading to marriage. In order to have a long lasting relationship and marriage that is pleasing to God and God will bless your union and sustain it.

Here are the various ways to maintain God standards for long lasting marriage and relationships listed below

In your relationship with your partner must have an agreement that this is a no sex relationship till marriage and must always strive not to put the two of you in situations that may expose the two of you to segxwal sins such as staying together or living together, staying for long period or hours  in your partner home alone together, dressing  provocatively that may lure your partner into segxwal sins.

Mostly to women, every segxwal encounter brings about wears and tear to them and every pre- marital sex generally ,  is the quickest  and fastest way to destroy yourself as  pre-marital sex exposes you to a lot of problems before marriage.

 The Bible confirms that in Proverbs 6v32 where is says that anyone that commit adultery lacks understanding and destroys his own soul. I Corinthian states that 6v18 states flee fornication, every sin a man commits is outside the body but whoever commits fornication destroys his own soul.

Proverbs  31v3 states that do not give your strength to women and  to the ways that destroys kings .In the listed passage above , the word of God has confirm that and when one does not get involve in segxwal sin before marriage , it is expected that about 60% of the problems in marriage is already solved.

Just look at the six possible things that will happen to any one that get involve in pre-marital sex include
1.    The partners when they eventually get married will never respect each other.
2.   The marriage will be made up of constant strife
3.   They will not trust each other
4.   They may certainly be room for unfaithfulness
5.   With time, they will lose segxwal desire for each other.
6.   They may also suffer delays in child bearing due to other problems in their health or reproductive system.
 Other problems that pre-marital sex brings include the   issues of segxwally transmitted diseases, infertility due to wrong abortions, block tubes ,HIV/AID, remember that condom usage is not completely safe when not used properly  used or there may be a tear some where along the line hence the best options is to avoid pre-marital sex before marriage, a word they say is enough for  the wise.

When you are married or about doing your wedding, the best thing that you should do in order to spice up your marriage and segxwal knowledge in order to have a long lasting relationships is to try and avoid pre-marital sex be build trust and have a successful marriage

Have you just experience break up recently  and you are now thinking of how you will get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back . You are not alone in this as almost every one has been in one break up or the other in certain times of their lives .What really matter is how you are going to handle the whole issue itself.

It is better to try to deal with who you know than rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. But if you are over playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are option. You can get your ex back if you follow a simple steps and give yourself sometime,

The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in you know exactly what really led to the break up in the first place so that you will be able to learn from the mistakes of the past and be able to know how to handle the situation in future and gradually you will be able to get your ex back.

The break up may have been because of a certain event or what they two of you could not handle again .No matter what cause the break up ,the mistakes need to be figured out and you should attempt on how you are going to handle it or deal with the situation ,in order not for the same situation or circumstances that lead to your back up with your ex to surface again. It is after you have really asses these mistakes and taken a decision on how to handle them in the future, then is the right time and moments towards working to get your ex back to you.

After seeing how to solve the mistakes , you step towards getting back your ex show be a gradual process and you should not present yourself before your ex as a needy person or desperate to get the relationship back as if you can not live by yourself even without the relationship , this may only situation.

What you will need to do is to address the issues that led to the break up with your ex and promise that you have made plans of correcting it in the future when you people get back together .let your ex see reason with you and you will also need to get the commitment of your ex in the area of his/her fault. This may take time  ,it is best to give enough time to sort these things out with your ex before getting back into any relationship.

After the issues has been resolve and agreement made towards each party and there is a sincerely willingness from both parties to build a great relationship, gradually you will easily get your ex back without any serious stress on your back or your ex part.

The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.

Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.

they need care and attention from all but i do not suggest marriage
bcos it is too delicate

god will help us all

Having a long lasting relationship entails the application of the principle of compromise and   sacrifice by the both parties involve in the relationship
Sacrifice involve going out of your way to meet the need of the other person or give the needed attention your partner needs even when it is not ok for you. Sacrifice involves places the need of the other person above your own need. The word compromise or sacrifice can be used interchangeable in a relationship, as it means giving up our self wishes and desires in order to accommodate the need of the other person. The principles of sacrifice helps us to have a balance in a relationship when the two parties in a relationship are willing to make little sacrifices and compromises here and there, denying self in order to make their relationship  to work.

Sacrifice helps to build up long lasting relationships as far as your efforts are not taken for granted by your partner but they are always well seen and appreciated. Sacrifice and compromise helps to build trust and commitments in  a relationships. This also builds up the bond over time between the two people involve in the relationship.

For sacrifice and compromise to work well in a relationship, there has to be a balance between the two parties involve in a relationship. In a situation where one person is the giver of sacrifice, commitment and compromise for their relationship to work and the other party is not doing the same, the other party my feel cheated and disappointed.

 We are all humans and effort should be make by all parties in a relationship to make it to work. Strive to create a balance in your relationship by being willing to give at all times when need arises to build a balance relationship. Do not expect so much from your partner when you are not also giving much. This is a law of life that to whom much is given, much is also expected.

For long lasting relationship, there should be an understanding between the two parties concerning when either of the parties should be willing to make a little sacrifice or compromise for the relationship to work. This involve both parties in a relationship being sensitive to the needs of their partner per time and be willing and able to make sacrifices where needed to build up the commitment and trust in the relationship.

Also remember that at the initial stage of commencing your relationship, both of you were always motivated about the relationship and where willing to make each other happy and at the same time make the relationship to work. The same things that you did at the beginning of your relationship to make it to work should be sustained throughout the life of any relationship in order to make it to work and last long.

When you are willing to make sacrifices for your relationship to last longer, it is always interpreted as signs of commitment from your partner and this will serve as  a level of serious trust between you and your partner and it will also encourage your partner to make similar sacrifices and compromises when the need arises  as far as the person is a positive thinking person that is ready and committed to building long lasting relationship.

God will help us in this country.
All country where there is joblessness and unemployment
Increased poverty while 5% enjoy the  wealth of the nation.
A country where there is no support structures for the youths

it are signs of the end time , god will help us