Though there is no genuine or good reason that a partner in a relationship should cheat on each other
Though it is surprising and sinful but there are some basic primary reasons that causes this as we look at it.
One thing has always bothered me about Sex in marriages. A good number of problems in marriages are caused by poor S*x lives. Yet, our religious leaders tend to spiritualize everything. Men, we leave in a physical world, enough of the ‘holier than thou attitude’. The array of media available to us today has made matters worse. When will the churches start handling topics on S*x and stop seeing those who do as carnally minded?
No woman, most of the time will tell you to your face that you have not satisfied them or you are not doing well so as not to hurt your ego or be branded as a wh*re because of the wrong perception in our society.
Rather the results will be that
Your woman will avoid having sex with you most of the time and will be looking for someone outside that will do it better.
Imagine What makes Rich women, married to rich men still go and commit adultery or having it with their drivers, workers, security or house boys or even very young boys that you would not imagine.
Do you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on?
Women love it even more than men if it is done by the right person with the right mindset, styles and knowledge
The problem is basically lack of satisfaction form their partner –period and nothing else.
Get the natural guide that will end your lack of ability to last long and satisfy your partner to reach orgasms and they will be the one that will even initiate it, glue to you always, tell you that you have done what no one has done and you are the best she has ever had and always even be the one imitating the thing.
Pastors don’t neglect your wife for the ministry
Remember; your first ministry is your home. I recently heard pastors wives are now into the abnormal lifestyle of Lesbianism. You may be surprised that a good percentage of women now practice this. According to them, it is the easiest way to satisfy their S*xual urge without their man becoming suspicious. Guys, please take your place in the lives of women. Pastor, let your PA face her husband. You can travel with your wife.
Well, if your religious leaders have failed to educate you, trust me, I will. Let’s look at the things men do wrong in their S*x lives:
Not creating the right atmosphere for S*x
Believe me; a good number of Nigerian men are guilty of this. A man goes to the beer parlour at the close of work only to return home late at night. The wife, who is exhausted with the kids, gets up to serve dinner with the man shouting on top of his voice over every little mistake. The woman is bitter, confused, and emotionally down when the man starts demanding S*x. Sir, she cannot perform even if she is a magician. S*x, to a woman is not just a physical thing.
Poor hygiene
I have heard men complaining about their women not satisfying them S*xually. Some have had to call off their weddings because they feel the lady isn’t satisfying them. I have been informed by friends and acquaintances that oral S*x have become the in-thing aside the abnormal men who want anal S*x. Some men and their partners have confessed to enjoying it the oral way. Fine, but my question is; did you make out time to trim that pubic hair or have a good warm shower before S*x?
Some men buy body spray every week because it has taken the place of shower. Before S*x, you see them reach for the can just to cover up their foul smell. Boy, your woman knows you are a dirty person and that puts her off. It’s only a cheap woman as dirty as you who can jump in bed with you and begin to take all the rubbish in. If you respect her, you will have your shower and brush and to get her in the mood, give her a scrub in the shower.
HomoS*xuality
Men that are involved in this act often avoid S*x with women while some do it just for doing it sake. I keep wondering why a human being should stop getting attracted to the opposite S*x and decide to settle for same S*x relationship. You want me to respect your choice here; I know we all have the right to choose our way of life. But like OBJ once said, God created man and woman and homos*xuality is a taboo in Africa.
The most disgusting aspect of homoS*xuality is that these men could also go for women. I consider it most despicable putting a woman’s life at risk by your ungodly lifestyle.
Guys don’t use S*x to heal a woman’s emotions after beating her. Only wild animals do. I once heard a pastor say; only cowards beat their women. Its time Nigerian men learn how not to treat a woman.
Excess weight
Your seven months pregnancy (pot belly) could be the cause of your bad S*x life. That woman doesn’t feel comfortable with the two bags of rice on top of her during S*x. Boy, it scares her. Please quit the bottles of beer with too much pounded yam and egusi, go to the gym, trim down your tummy and remember, tummy tuck is for the lazy man. You can’t try those lovely styles if you are not fit.
No foreplay
Boy, she isn’t running away, she is all yours. Don’t descend on her like your regular bowl of pounded yam. It’s really painful knowing that most women engage in S*x just to satisfy their man. She loves you, that’s why she goes the extra mile to get you to the peak of the mountain. Why not do same for her. She needs to know what orgasm is and not just reading about it.
Spend at least the first thirty minutes of love making caressing her, speaking sweet words to her ears, telling her how much you adore her body(even if you don’t).Women need words to excel in life. Please do every thing possible to get your woman to experience orgasm. For you, it shouldn’t be anything short of love making.
You can also decide to make love to her in an unusual place like the kitchen, living room after the kids must have gone to bed. You can take her to a place she has never been or check into a good hotel with her for a weekend. This will bring the sparks back.
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