If the maid behaviour was not affecting the performance of her job, I don't see the problem. Maybe the lady was jealous of the maid for the success she was having with men !
Nothing wrong with the photo because what is under the "horns" is so beautiful that does not make you notice anyhting else. Just watch the eyes and you'll be in heaven ! Ciao my friend.
My dear friend, do not stress yourself too much. Just follow your instinct and protect your money in the event she might be a gold digger. Don't give yourself for granted to any woman and you'll see that the wrong ones will be eliminated naturally. I have been married twice and divorced twice, so I have experience. At the end, I got a beautiful daughter who loves me very much and I still enjoy relationships with beautiful weman. Good luck !
My dear, let me give you some advice on your situation. Forget to expose those young girls on facebook or similar actions against the girls, you will loose your hubby forever. I would suggest that you start and do the same thing as he is doing, which means start chatting with other men and make sure he knows or he sees this. Don't show misfeeling for his chatting with other girls. At times partecipate to the chatting to girls with him, showing that this is fun for you and that does not bother you at all. You'll see that he will be concerned about your behaviour and he will be more attentive to you. Let me know how it goes. Ciao