It's not right to hang your clothes outside the house, can be at the back but NEVER outside.

Nothing bad in reposting this type of testimonies instead of flooding everywhere with jargons or pornography stories.
I have thought of this for long, many people have been buried alive in our country just because of our negligence and impatience. May God help us.

I suppose it takes extra inner strength for someone to bring up a very personal issue like this for people to advice him on, the least we can do is to feel empathize with him.

You said your children comes into your room maybe for wee or hugs, since mother inlaw is going to be around for two months, she should help you out with those and close your door. It is not proper for children of 2 and 4 to see those things now and PLEASE respect your mother inlaw, two months is not two hundred years. As your wife to minimise the screams and shouts. God help you.