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41	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What is your attitude towards gay relationship in Naija	on: 9-07-2008 08:25 PM
Quote from: diran1475 on 9-07-2008 08:20 PM Lets try and separate issues from personalities the issues in the lives of these people is down right unnatural, evil and and completely anti-God(Rom.1;20-28) and should be clearly stated to them. But i believe that most of these people are truly lovely persons in every sense and if carefully shown the errors of their ways they can certainly be the best God wants them to be. Telling people that their actions are bad is not condemning or judging them(condemning and judging is telling such that they are without redemption) Not telling them is approving of such:yes is yes ,no is no Worse is telling them out of disdain and hate and not out of love Gays are people too; just a bit deranged and misguided God help them all I pray that this disease will not have a foot hold in this our great nation. (Amen). Our problems too many to add this one While you're praying, would you pray for a little enlightenment, please?

42	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: MY GUY IS IN LOVE WITH MY SISTER	on: 9-07-2008 08:22 PM
Quote from: fripaul on 18-01-2008 03:07 PM MY PEOPLE HAVE TOLD MY FRIEND TO BACK UP FROM THE RELATIONSHIP COZ I KNOW WHO HE IS. HE IS MY FRIEND SO I KNOW HIM MUCH BETTER. SOME SHOULD PLS TALK TO HIM B4 I DO SOMETHING BAD. I wouldn't sit back and let my sister get played like that, man, not if I knew it was likely to happen.

43	Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: WHO DO BLACK NIGERIANS SCAM OTHER BLACK PEOPLE IN THE NAME OF LOVE?	on: 9-07-2008 08:18 PM
Quote from: mikkyy on 9-07-2008 02:15 AM well i guess dats bcoz the level of poverty and unemployment in our contry is way out of hand and there is nothing else for the youths to do to survive, i tell u u have to be here to know wat am talking about, no job no, for no hope ,if guns were much here like they are there i the states then i guess lagos wont be safe at all, dont blame them its the only way they know to survive if they hard some better they wont scam no body likes to lie and dats a fact its just our gov dats turning the youths into wat dey are today... Sadly this is so very true, but it's a shame their own hopelessness blinds them to the harm they are doing to gullible, often lovesick people on the other end. It's a shame but so many of these people get caught up in the web of deception and wind up sending massive sums of money they really don't have or can't afford. This is a fairly typical first exchange, taken from a group for victims of these scams: Scammer <ding> Hi! Intended Victim: Hello Scammer: How are you doing today? Intended Victim: I am well and you? Scammer: I'm fine, glad to hear you are well Scammer: Well am Garry kinner by Name What's ur name? Intended Victim: Oh I don't give out my name that quickly. How did you find me and where are you from? Scammer:Ohh ok...Well i find you on yahoo members search Where are you from? Intended Victim: I asked first! Scammer: I'm from Chicago and you? Intended Victim: I live in MT How old are you and what do you do for a living? Scammer: I'm 52, i work as an Architect, presently in africa for work now and you? Intended Victim: Oh I see well I am a teacher and I think you are not telling me the truth as most who say they are in africa are usually working in the internet cafes as a Yahoo Boy! Scammer: Ohh i see Well i will tell you the Truth yes i am a yahoo boy and am not who i told you i am i will really like to know you more Intended Victim: Well sorry but I am not going to give you any money or cash a check for you or ship anything for you so you really don't want to know me Scammer: Ohh i see and i know that Well im here to look for a woman that will help me out I'm a Student The reason why am doing this because my parents are dead, and i have no means of getting money Intended Victim: Yeah my parents are dead too and my son is in the hospital with a very bad sickness so please do not bother me you will be fine go ou and get a real job like the rest of us have to do! Scammer: Ohh i's sorry to hear all that, how is your son doing now? Intended Victim: He is DEAD also! Goodbye! Scammer: I know am supposed to be working, but to tell you is that i don't want to hurt anyone and wanting to be a hard working man Intended Victim: Well sorry I can't help you! GoodBye! Scammer: That's Ok, just know that someone came into your life tooday and tells you the truth Intended Victim: That's OK and I really hope that all of you Yahoo boys stop hurting and taking from good innocent women! Scammer: I will never do it again i'm promiseing you that, I will love to know you more Intended Victim: Sorry, I have nothing further to say to you and I don't want to know a yahoo Boy at all! Scammer: How old are you? Intended Victim; I am 51 Scammer: Ohh that's great i hope you are fine? Intended Victim: I am doing very well TY and GOODBYE!!!! Scammer:ok GoodBye it's nice meeting you

44	Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: WHO DO BLACK NIGERIANS SCAM OTHER BLACK PEOPLE IN THE NAME OF LOVE?	on: 9-07-2008 08:01 PM
Quote from: blkbutterflyboo on 9-07-2008 12:29 AM IT IS A MYSTERY TO ME. BLACK PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE HAVING HARD TIMES. BLACK PEOPLE IN AMERICAN ARE NO EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. ALOT OF BLACK PEOPLE IN AMERICA ARE HAVING HARD TIMES FINANCIALLY TOO. WHY WOULD BLACK MEN FROM NIGERIA PRETEND TO FALL IN LOVE WITH AN AMERICAN BLACK WOMAN TO SCAM HER OUT OF MONIES? ITS SAD AND JUST EVIL. NOTHING GOOD IS GOING TO COME TO A PERSON LIKE THAT. TAKE A LOOK AT THE SCAMMERS POSTED AT ON http://419.bittenus.com/8/7/ALBERTBOLAJIROBERTS.html FROM NIGERIA. I used to get 3-4 of these scammers a night hitting me up talking a bunch of instant love shit, guys pretending to be women until I called their ass out. Depending on how I felt sometimes I would string them out just to waste their time and then piss them off in the end. One guy asked me where I lived so he could send the witches after me. Lawd hab mercy! Not the damn witches! lol

45	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Gay sex..	on: 9-07-2008 04:25 AM
Quote from: Wan2et on 9-07-2008 12:31 AM Quote from: Besito on 8-07-2008 07:10 PM Quote from: tbtb on 4-07-2008 12:54 PM i'm a guy in my early 20s. i was initiated into having gay sex when i was in the high school by one of my seniors.ever since then i have shown interest in it.Now i discovered that i no more get attracted to opposite sex but to my fellow guy. is there anyway out? Pls i need ur advise. [email protected] love It took much courage to write this. Web , the virtual world , makes you feel easier to say what you dare not say in the real world. This is true, though you still expose yourself to certain coments of a type already seen here.

46	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Gay sex..	on: 8-07-2008 07:10 PM
Quote from: tbtb on 4-07-2008 12:54 PM i'm a guy in my early 20s. i was initiated into having gay sex when i was in the high school by one of my seniors.ever since then i have shown interest in it.Now i discovered that i no more get attracted to opposite sex but to my fellow guy. is there anyway out? Pls i need ur advise. [email protected] love It took much courage to write this.

47	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Gay sex..	on: 8-07-2008 07:09 PM
Quote from: donpeddy on 7-07-2008 08:09 AM why u agree by the way as for me ,i hate gays...if i was opportuned to handle them i will kill them all..........peace Hmm, some say this about blacks too.... Hate is hate is hate. Don't be a hata.

48	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Which One Do You Enjoy Most?	on: 8-07-2008 07:01 PM
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 8-07-2008 06:33 PM Quote from: yemmight on 8-07-2008 10:20 AM Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 8-07-2008 04:44 AM Quote from: yemmight on 7-07-2008 03:49 PM Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 7-07-2008 02:26 PM Quote from: yemmight on 7-07-2008 12:28 PM Condom or Skin? protection always!.... When you said protection always. But can someone be sure that without condom protection is guaranteed? what do u mean?..how can protection be guaranteed without condoms?.. i mean it does break at times, but its better than going bare. Do you mean that the lenght of that thing breaks condom? I have never experienced it b4 o. Or is it bcos my thing is small? Or is it bcos pple use more of gold circle? pple should rough rider, romantic etc. This can't break alot of things can break a condom..using the wrong type and size(ppl with Huge plantains should use magnums)..and if u say your banana is not yet matured..then u should stick to a normal size condom. Also pay attention to the expiration date on the condom wrapper. The latex of condoms loses resiliency over time.

49	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is sex the most talked about topic amongst young people?	on: 3-07-2008 03:51 PM
Quote from: diran1475 on 3-07-2008 10:46 AM Quote from: Buddyflex on 3-07-2008 08:55 AM Well it's not just Sex. Most young pips don't have anyone to talk to them about Love, sex and feelings. so most of them end up talking about sex when what they may want to talk about is love. They need to learn how to understand and express thier feelings. That may not be too far from the truth, so in other words Y-people should be talking about their true feelings to people who are willing to listen and give the right advice and directions. But considering the vulgarities associated with y-pips talk about sex it maybe shows that many have the wrong views about sex, what really its for and how to express your sincere feelings without messing things up. The fact is that young people's lives are so highly segxwalized today, the music industry and its accompanying videos, the Internet, all this keeps sex front and center and in the most vulgar of ways. "most of them end up talking about sex when what they may want to talk about is love" I couldnt agree with you more. Again looking as Maslow (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs ) the need for segxwal intimacy is a higher order need than sex. Sex is the lower common denominator.

50	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is sex the most talked about topic amongst young people?	on: 3-07-2008 05:42 AM
Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:51 PM Thats maslow, whats yours? is it the most interesting thing to talk about? No, but it's right up there

51	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What would you do if you were him?	on: 3-07-2008 04:44 AM
Quote from: snowball on 2-07-2008 10:54 PM hmm,heaven might come down 2 earthon him dat day Damn straight it might!

52	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: will u marry ur wife if u find out she is HIV/AIDS possitive	on: 3-07-2008 04:43 AM
Quote from: inigie on 2-07-2008 11:34 PM u say ur wife remeba say na till death do u apart, but if i neva marry am guy e get as e bi. Translation, please

53	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is Heartbreak an excuse for Lesbianism?	on: 2-07-2008 08:22 PM
Quote from: Ihuoma on 2-07-2008 01:54 AM Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 22-06-2008 01:46 AM Quote from: den on 21-06-2008 04:18 PM Why Lesbianism? Is it more pleasurable or safer in any sense? what are u asking?...the topic or your comment?...but anyways....For some heartbreak is the cause of their change in segxwal orientation...but as far as it being safe...it is still the same as heterosegxwals having protected or unprotected sex..you still get diseases and exposed to everything else that comes with it. Thank you...right. I always thought that lesbians doesn't like to be penetrated....lol....I might be wrong cuz they mke those strap on-penis and things. I can not give you any reason for being a lesbian, I don't care how many heartbreaks a woman went through, there is no reason. No woman can do for me what a man should be able to do. The penis was made for a woman. I have nothing against lesbians but na wa ooh.... This leads to an interesting point: If you are a biological female, what exactly are you supposed to do if in your psychosegxwal mind the idea and feeling of having your body penetrated reviles you? And if you are a biological male, what if that's the only thing that feels right for you?

54	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: would you accept a job offer from your father-in -law?	on: 2-07-2008 08:12 PM
What are the issues here?

55	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is sex the most talked about topic amongst young people?	on: 2-07-2008 08:12 PM
Because on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, it's the only one of the most fundamental things interesting enough to talk about: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs

56	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What would you do if you were him?	on: 2-07-2008 08:08 PM
Quote from: alebe on 1-07-2008 12:44 PM it is a betrayal of trust, such irresponsible people should not be allowed in a decent society. infact i will declare such person a persona non grata in my house i believe there are ways such things are done, afterall i won't marry my sister My head says Hey, if they are both adults and they want to get together, fine. My heart says MUTHAFCKA, U AIN'T GONNA BE FCKING MY SISTER UP IN MY DAMN HOUSE. YOU BETTA GET DA HELL ON BEFORE I BUST A CAP UP IN YO' AZZ!!!!! I have no idea whether my head or my heart would win.

57	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: will u marry ur wife if u find out she is HIV/AIDS possitive	on: 2-07-2008 08:02 PM
Quote from: benzi on 7-12-2007 10:49 PM i culd but no sex Ok, so where are you going to get your sex from? Or maybe you will live a fulfilling, platonic love with her? Just asking

58	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CAN U BE FRIENDS WIT UR EX?	on: 2-07-2008 04:07 PM
Quote from: onyin on 2-07-2008 06:38 AM if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol Since you know you still love your ex, it's probably a bad idea, especially if you will have an unspoken desire to get back together.

59	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: If you discovered that a close pal is gay...	on: 2-07-2008 02:17 AM
Quote from: Ihuoma on 2-07-2008 02:02 AM Quote from: UZY on 19-03-2008 09:58 PM If u discovered that a close pal of ur's is gay,how do u handle such a person?Especially when the both of U are quite close,though not intimate That happen to me in high school. A friend told me she was gay. I loved her even more b/c she told something she never told anyone (not even her parents). Our friendship didn't change....at all. She was no different than she was the day before she told me she was gay. I acceptable her.....that wasn't a big deal in our friendship. We were not friends because I thought she was straight, so there was no reason to end the friendship b/c she's gay. Your friend was fortunate to have you as a friend.

60	Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: If you discovered that a close pal is gay...	on: 1-07-2008 09:28 PM
Quote from: UZY on 19-03-2008 09:58 PM If u discovered that a close pal of ur's is gay,how do u handle such a person?Especially when the both of U are quite close,though not intimate That would be the time that your friend would need your friendship the most, if you are able to step up and be a real friend. He or she probably lives in terror as it is that his/her friends would drop him or her if they found out. You could prove those fears groundless or absolutely true.

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