It takes two to tango. If i am independent i work hard and still have to pay the bills well asking me to be submissive to a lazy man its downright impossible. I could kill him. A man needs to be a man if not there will be fire on the mountain.
It's either actresses choose their careers or their marriage. No matter how nice any husband is no man will truly in all honesty pose half naked or being smooched by other men. So Ini i hope u know what u are doing.