all u need is go and die so,u wont make bad decisions and make ur lyfe worst or go and jump on thirdmainland bridge 4 ur head to be smash....stupid question!!also u need ur sense back

huh?...lol what thats? is that some kinda trade or something? are u buying ur wife that she has to cut off every link with her and her family.

The changing of a woman's last name because of marriage only makes sense when operating under the law "that a woman is a piece of a man's real estate".... as women were once considered....but today women rights have evolved ten fold since then and women now have the right to decide whether they will take on their husbands name....

@erikaakpan babe i'm not saying i won't change...i'm only saying i can add my maiden name...but Geez!!!
Your maiden name is a REPRESENTATION of where u came from. It links u to ur heritage and family members from years gone by. Taking on a new name can align u to a new heritage and family and some may unnecessarily feel distanced from their own ancestry.

when i came into this world i was given a first name as a form of individual identity and a last name as a shared identity with blood ties.

That is why for me d idea of retaining my individuality makes it very difficult to hand over as part of d contract of matrimony.

for me it's like an act of slavery and oppression on a woman as a wife, who becomes a possession rather being a person in a working partnership of two... with one taking the lead and the other complimenting and completing

@toks-E pls tell him

@posterlike i said b4...idon'tagree...well it can be something d couple have to decide...what's bad if i add my middle name

wait a minute....If a man truly becomes one' with his woman through marriage why does she have to take his name?What stops them from combining names? instead of one taking up d other's name?
Does a woman's roots have to be buried under d dotted lines?

Some women choose to have one uniform name because of conditioning and culture, which has over time tied d woman's identity to d man's name..... As a result of this societal norm... stupid laws have been put in place that does not recognize a wife's right to her name.

If we are to go with d argument of keeping to what d law says then why change over from a name that has been on BIRTH CERTIFICATES, HOSPITAL RECORDS, PASSPORTS, DRIVER'S LICENSES and other very defining legal documents to a completely different name after many years of her life?

How many names and identities does a woman have to take and drop in HER life time? Or does she keep adding a new name to the last one each time she remarrys?
or lets assume u get married and u have only gurls...no boy to carry ur name along... will u allow ur surname to die like that?

i rest my case with a question

Yea...Kenne did You see that? No? Aiight see it again.....
 

Passing... Hhm...

Hoping they really are Straight...

Thought as much...Was just trynna pull Your legs(not apart tho  ) Good You didn't take it personal.

I'm straight...You?

wot if i dont?

how do u mean?

Scared?

ahhhh....isn't the fight park enough?