it depends on the girl... Evry woman's body is different so also re their hymen...one hymen can be thicker than others...and for the bleeding, it may not come immediately considering her kind of body...Also you should hv known why in the act that she was a virgin or not even though she didnt bleed...

From the gist i gathered, A man took the girl to a hostel and slept with her, in the course of the intercourse, he spoke some incantations and the girl began to change into a snake.Frightened by what was happening to her, the gal screamed, yelling out the name of Jesus and the tranfromation stopped. That was why she didn't change totally. I dont know how true this story is but that was what I heard.....lol... ;Dciao!

hi, u'v got a lot of work to do regarding the situation.first, u have to find the cause of her sucidial act,get her to love herself first. For someone to want to kill herself,its because she doesnt care abt herself. Teach her to love and appreciate herself...then u can start thinking of ending the relationship with her...gudluck dear.

Cashben, i will like to ask jst otu of curiousity, all these u'v listed, do u protray them cos if u dnt...it will really be a shame.... ;)jst saying.....

OMG!......Dnt even knw wat 2 say....

have u heard of the word "pretense" it is a common word wen it comes to dating,relationship and bah bah bah. Most men and women pretend especially wen it comes to relationships and also especially wen they want sth frm the other person. So my dear, all the signs u listed can fall perfectly under that mean word so i wnt considered them real signs. Jst another script according to xena15..

i think she isnt fully committed to you.ie she is trying to keep her options opened considering you guys arent married yet.We ladies do that alot.especially when we aint still convinced of how much a guy loves us. SO im guessing she doesnt trust you yet and probably blives u hv other galfriends she might not be aware of and you might decide to opt one day and leave. So dearie, i think as long as you guys arent married yet she will continue 2 encourage other men and besides you dnt expect her to delete everyother per in her life simply because you hv promised her marriage...If you really love this lady,find out if she trully fiils the same and let the others be put aside....

nw to be honest, relationships in this 21st century dont do well without sex, not all sha.especially if the guy is crazily attracted to you. Even you will find it difficult as well bt if its what u really want let your no be No. Let him si the determination of you wanting to keep ur sef before marriage. Most guys even the good xtian ones dont see the big deal in sex, let him understand how much it mins to you and dnot encourage advances that will make him thinkin you aint serious abt it...Dont move in with him.let the foreplay stop at romance but pls let him no how badly attracted you are to him. Cos if he doesnt knw how much u love him, he may assume you are  havin it elsewher thats y you dnt wt it with him....So dear everything depends on you.Bt make sure u dnt date a guy who is bad tempered cos he may decide to rape you...

nw to be honest, relationships in this 21st century dont do well without sex, not all sha.especially if the guy is crazily attracted to you. Even you will find it difficult as well bt if its what u really want let your no be No. Let him si the determination of you wanting to keep ur sef before marriage. Most guys even the good xtian ones dont see the big deal in sex, let him understand how much it mins to you and dnot encourage advances that will make him thinkin you aint serious abt it...Dont move in with him.let the foreplay stop at romance but pls let him no how badly attracted you are to him. Cos if he doesnt knw how much u love him, he may assume you are  havin it elsewher thats y you dnt wt it with him....So dear everything depends on you.Bt make sure u dnt date a guy who is bad tempered cos he may decide to rape you...

I know this sounds like a rubbish question but we are all aware of the fact that we ladies keep more male friends than female friends. We find it more easy to relate with the opposite sex than with our own sex because the fact is that we ladies are full of drama and find it totally uneasy to trust one another unlike the men folk. We display this competitive edge that makes it dificult to really be true to one another as female friends..so we kip male friends who we can easily tell all our darkest secrets. But a situation where u become aware of the fact that this so called best male friend of urs is being to fall inluv with you and u are smartly aware that a rlship with this guy wudnt jst work, as the same time trying to kip the friendship intact, How do u prevent him from falling inluv with you?.........................

i dnt si any differences from what they used to wear before. As far as im concerned they are they still puttin on the same uniform only this time, they are with more armor....

d only luv oath necesary is dat made at d altar...anyother is absurd n inapropriate...so if we narow it dwn,it bcms foolish..

hey.im sori abt wat hpd 2 u n its true u aint d 1st per 2 xper it bt no 1 ll eva no hw u fil bcos dey aint u.so dnt let any 1 tel u re ok bcos realy u re nt bt u ll b.its goin 2 tk tm 2 acpt its ova dat it is y its cald hrtbrk.i'v xp it a couple of tms n it is indid painful bt guy,life hs 2 go on.hrtin ursf ll neua heal d pain.grief is d 1st tin u nid 2 do bt dnt it invol u hrtin ursf.cry if u hv 2.isolat ursf u wt 2.kp ur mind ocupd wit oda tins bt doin tins u luv doin.tlk 2 frnds u no undstd u.in sumarily only tm n God dat cn realy heal u.trust me!

thnks every1 4 ur contributns.i do appreciate it.
Yes,he nos abt my filins @ mazi;we datd 4 quite awhile bt i tik dat is d pt.he new abt it n tk it 4 grantd.he kpt mvin in n out of my life weneva he likd bcos u new i luvd hm evn more than myslf n ll alwys accept hm bk.he tiks i ll neva luv anoda as much as i luvd hm.i'v hd enuf.i dnt wt hm anymor.so pls hw do i 4gt hm bcos it hurts badly.

I hv luvd him 4 as lng as i can remb;a girlish crush dat grew into sth undescrible,an emotn dat we al no as luv.i knw we werent mnt 2 b.i knew ds luv cn neva b bt i kpt hpn dat tins ll chng.dat he ll chg.i kpt luvn hm bcos dat ws al my hrt cud do.bt he crushd it n i knew dat i hd 2 let go of ds feelin.so pls tel me,hw shld i bcos im seriously tryn bt my hrt wudnt let go?