poster, where is the picture of my dear digital Governor, her excellency Uloma Ekaette Godswill Akpabio, besides, if u commentors were to be this people's position you all will do d same, so leave them alone. revenge is for the Lord so judge not so u too might not be judged. they are all beautiful.

if it were to be cossy showing her Bosom  u people will call it FASHION, now that she is gorgeously dress and being herself u people call it DISGRACE... wen will u people ever come to know that dis people should be given an air to live their lives freely and without unnecessary intrudes .....  that dressing to be is not revealing so please everyone that is against it... live with it.

nametalkam take ur tym oooo...... abi d babe bribed you to make her popular? if she wan come naija make she come nah, as for me.... i don vex for u nametalkam...... na we be and will continue to remain the AFRICAN BEAUTIES.... naija actress and women i hail una

it is bad that at 18k minimum wage which some states are still struggling to pay, dis decisions could be effected. not all Nigerians will buy fuel directly but the prices of things have changed overnight. let the government do something to its economy before removing the fuel subsidy. it is said people are already spending from the budgets and evn projected budgets, this is disaster and even bullets or bombs cant stop the reaction of d citizens..... God placed our leaders not to frustrate but to make us smile, live in peace and not in fear.... Government should tackle Boko Haram and d Economy stability then wen all is done they can apply fuel subsidy.

alot of guys like using the past against us when events presents itself.... so i guess we leave the past out and make the present relationship work to avoid blame and repetition of past occurrence... some people also uses past events to tempt the partner.... this might be so unhealthy and very wrong ....

Zilly not me ..... as a concern lady i have to share this so we can all help ourselves and help our men to call a spade a spade like u call it "It's the American way" i partially agree... it is just that we have come to this realization late.... we all need each other to survive....

Youngstories....YES u might be diff as u claim... but before i came up to write this... i have heard... seen....read about this unruly behaviour of SOME men, which makes to come up with the the statistics of 75% of them...men now wants women to be their mouthpiece e.g ( man: i love u, woman: how do u love me?, man: tell me how u want me to love u and i will love u)  hahahah the above is so dramatic and childish.....MOST MEN ARE STILL BOYS AND FEW BOYS ARE MEN....how can men folk salvage this alarming  attitude.

Jossy no bed time stories... we women know that great number of men are depending on women... yes not boastful but factual....but most men are still trying to please women when they know they r incapable... times have change.... men should wake up from dreaming and know that women of this generation are working class  and not only housewives materials. why dont u open up then make a good woman go gaga after discovering the situation?

Hope... na true... some women will talk about fashion...designers and stuffs and the will call amount of what they wear, thereby making the a man to pretend to be able to afford it.... women let us stop stressing our men and be real to them so we all can always be happy, avoiding walls or barriers of hatred.

true life story.... a guy who met a lady newly decided to pay her a visit...on getting there he discovered that the lady was living a moderate and comfortable  life ( this did not make the proud because he met and concluded her to be humble). he was welcomed by all and treated with great care and comfort.... the next day, while the guy was set to leave...he insisted that the lady joined him on his journey, so he can show the lady around his place and have fun...after much pleadings from him, the lady decided to join him on this weekend trip.They got to the guys place quite early enough to get to some places as earlier promised....as a humble lady, she got about the other places in the house, awaiting when the fun will begin...but nothing happened. The next day was meant for the lady to go back and this guy was still unable to communicate to the lady....on seeing the stress on him, the lady approached him and asked if there is anything wrong...he said his friend just disappointed him by not withdrawing the money he issued cheque for. As God will have his way d lady caught him reading a text from a bank official he wanted to borrow money from...the context of the text explains why the money could not be given to him because he was living above his income.....and having huge outstanding with the bank. Even being caught with this...the guy still went on to defend his status instead of explaining things out to the lady. this brought a big outburst of argument and quarrel from the man who was trying to cover up his dirty linens.


why don't men try to live on what they can carter for..... why don't they own up to be who they are.....why don't they show up their weaknesses ans inabilities so they can be helped or cautioned...... high time men know that women are aware of this and we are watching out.....no need telling women to cover up (foot the bills ) that u will reimburse  later and only to  come up with an unexplainable excuse that has no strings... we know this too and WANTS MEN TO ALWAYS OPEN UP AND GET HELP..... men should stop nursing problems by building expectations in women, the outcome might be DISASTROUS!!!

how is love invested? people invest with the hope of profitting not the knowing that they can be kill anyday. think!

no woamen have ever wanted to be treated like shit, that those people u have come across condone it does not mean that they like to be treated that way. come to think of it, even when this is happens the lady is abuse but the guy too is also insecure. the guy is looking for a way to end it by going away from the lady and the lady is looking for a way to end it by pretending to like d torture.... everybody needs freedom and as we have discussed here if freedom was not important to an individual then why would a whole nation seek for one.... better things are better things and every one needs it even u. think on it.........we are women  we are not dumb and men shd be able to voice ou t and come out from their shield of forceful compromise of using abusing way to scare women instead communication.

there shd be a better explanation to why the girl did not like the way  u treated her..... were u becoming so nice to get her love? u dont buy love by being nice . rare cases are seen  when love is involve. no lady wants to be treated badly even those that are not expose are now enlightened....   thx for ur contribution.

pls explain how what u r saying will make a man happy to raise his hand on a lady,,,, yes sex is the strongest but does it apply that u must use that to torment another, just for the pleasure of seeing her be in pains.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... this is becoming so worrisome if one decides to stay in such abusive relationship... no matter how u have made urself so low, remember that u still have the right to take care of urself... if u die u die alone not with " anyone called lover boy that killed u".... ladies pls be forewarned.

ladies are not doggs and maybe u have been dealt with does not mean u shd conclude on others.... some r out there wishing away and why this topic is brought up is to help not to condemn...... LADIES KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT.... it might few things that makes them refuse to let go and it will be nice if u help us figure that out. thanks

good one

this is a good one..... they need to constantly remind themselves of the God given beauty in them..... ladies pls love U as U are.... no one else will love U they way u would or should love YOURSELF.

this might be true, but how could one  be a slave to oneself?

good idea here... but who ever told them marriage needs practices? one needs to be himself or herself in marriage...u dont endure in marriage u enjoy marriage..... inferiority complex shd be dealt with... they should try to open up and forget abt the shame of it.

yes this really make alot of sense to me..... they need to love themselves, respect their decisions and stop deceiving themselves in the name of love or whatever. thanks alot Ajepakoromance