can you tell a silly white girl, what does finger tipped sized intentions on a man's lower back mean, that are made while they are a small child...

What do the pressed indentations on the lower back mean(done as a small child)?....stupid white girl just askin a question

Everytime you hear the word scam or fraud you typically hear that it involves a nigerian.  What he always says in response to this is that there are alot of nigerians, they can't all be bad.  And he's right, and I guess I wouldn't be concerned at all if it wasn't for this stigma...he doesn't even want to associate with other nigerians himself because of this.  I guess I was looking for some insight, but I found none here

Yeah, I asked him about having a wife or child back home, he denies it, he's 34, goes to church every sunday.  I guess what I don't understand is if he is trying to get a green card then why does he want to go back home, and why does he want me to go with him?  This isen't an online relationship, we live in the same town and see each other all the time.... Don't take this personally, but americans tend to be suspicious of nigeria, although he hasn't actually done anything to make me think that way.

ok, I see I'm not going to get any help here, thanks alot for nothing!

Why would an african be asking this question to begin with?

What should an american woman know about dating a nigerian man, wouldn't he prefer to be with someone who is familar with his own culture?  He tends to avoid other nigerians in general and says that women were he is from are alot of trouble if you bring them to a country like the U.S.  This sounds ridiculous to me.
Just looking for advice.  I have never known a nigerian man before, but I have been dating one for almost a year now.  Initially he told me he already had his papers or green card, but recently he fessed up and told me it was all still up in the air(he is here legally sponsered by his employer).  Then he talks about being home sick and wanting to go back, if this is the case then why bother becoming a U.S. resident?  He has been asking me if I would want to visit or possible relocate there at some point in the future because his parents are getting old.  I'm really confused, he says he only came here to get his master's degree, but while in school he applied for asylum. Should I be concerned about his intentions as far as trying to get me out of the country?  Is he using me to get his green card?  He really seems genuine to me and I don't mind helping him if thats the case, but I don't want to get myself in one of those nightmare situations you read about.  I thought maybe getting input from other people more familar with this country's culture could give me some insight. 

Just looking for advice.  I have never known a nigerian man before, but I have been dating one for almost a year now.  Initially he told me he already had his papers or green card, but recently he fessed up and told me it was all still up in the air(he is here legally sponsered by his employer).  Then he talks about being home sick and wanting to go back, if this is the case then why bother becoming a U.S. resident?  He has been asking me if I would want to visit or possible relocate there at some point in the future because his parents are getting old.  I'm really confused, he says he only came here to get his master's degree, but while in school he applied for asylum. Should I be concerned about his intentions as far as trying to get me out of the country?  Is he using me to get his green card?  He really seems genuine to me and I don't mind helping him if thats the case, but I don't want to get myself in one of those nightmare situations you read about.  I thought maybe getting input from other people more familar with this country's culture could give me some insight.