Why is it that when a guy makes a marriage proposal to a lady (especially a Nigerian lady), her usual response is: "Please give me some time to think about it" even when she knows she's eventually going to say "YES"? What astonishes me more is that when the guy asks her out for shopping, she does not request for time to think about anything; When he decides to spoil her silly with gifts or take her out to the Cinema to watch love films and eat popcorn and ice-cream, she doesn't request for any time to think about anything! But when it comes to the big question, she needs all the time in the entire Cosmos to give you an answer. And she would eventually say "YES". Most astonishing is when the lady tells you she would have to pray about it too (even when you know she's not the praying type)...And for most of the time, this "prayer period" is spent announcing your marriage proposal to her numerous girlfriends. Also, am yet to hear of a Lady who said to a guy: "After much prayers, God revealed to me that I should not marry you"...Baseline, she would eventually say "YES I WOULD MARRY YOU". So ladies, why the stress in giving an answer? Why the delay tactics?
u said it right there,big questions wont get cheap & quick answers.
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