Re the 2nd video I agree with most of what she says although I do think some black men do marry white women in particular for social acceptance and a little bit of insecurity but you can't judge everyone in the same way people marry for some many reasons love, security loyalty to settle down etc.
As for dating outside the race as a black man I would date any race as long as there is an attraction however when it comes to marriage my preference would always be a black women mainly because I do not really like crossing cultures i.e I want someone with the same cultural background as myself - as I think it hard work sometimes trying to compromise with another culture and Im quite stuck in my ways and beliefs.
Saying that I must agree that many black women can be a little too demanding and aggressive especially at the start of relationships - which does nt always help.
hope im not offending anyone - these are just my views