Why do these married men go out with these girls?
The way I see it, it is more the fault of the married men.
do married men rape them, or force them to sleep with him?
what exactly is the men fault?
They (married men) are the ones with the vows; the ones who has the responsibility to their wives...the ones who went before God and promised to love, honor and obey their wives, they ones who vowed to put no other person before their wives. These girls, not saying that what they do is right, but they don't owe these wives anything. They are single and free to date whoever they want to. These married men are not free to date who they want to....if they remember that, this wouldn't be an issue.
Now if my husband (hell boyfriend) cheat on me, I would be more mad at my husband/boyfriend then I would be at the "other woman". Because she owes me nothing, she is not with me, he is. I am dedicated and faithful to him as he should be to me; the "other woman" is not dedicated and faithful to me.