Whenever I think about marriage, it sends shivers down my spine! Choosing the wrong mate to go down the isle with is like grabbing the ears of a raging mad pit bull. The truth is it’s just so difficult to adequately plan before saying 'I DO'. As a result, a lot of men/women learn the hard way after walking down the aisle. No doubt, the price of travelling the wrong part is high, the consequence and lingering effects painful.
Personally, whether a relationship goes beyond the getting to know stage (dating) would be determined by the following:
If I’m dating a guy and all he is interested in is to test drive my body, emotions and feelings, I guess I will just have to show him the door without looking back. Honourable men will always guard a woman’s heart, protect her emotions, honour her and stand as champions for her spiritual, mental and physical well being. Men who lacks honour, will toy with a woman’s emotions without any semblance of concerns or compassion. If he doesn’t fit- i won’t force him. True Love will find me! Expecting a man like this to do an honourable thing is like expecting piranhas to play with you if you make the mistake of diving into their water.
If he is still trying to find himself, then he can’t find me. He should be searching for the maps to mastering manhood and have no business trying to prove that he is a man.
No human is designed or built for abuse. If he is an abuser, there is no need to deliberate……he is definitely not the one; he is a goner!
Ok….it gets a bit funny at this point; if he wants or is frequently demanding s** and I’m not yet his wife, we properly not going to make it to the alter, would we? this is subjective i agree!
And the list goes on............
how long is the list? you aare one complicatd babe.
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