YES FINALLY!!!!!!

It seems like someone was cheating......there is biblical support to divorce if someone in the relationship having sex outside of the marriage.

I've always wondered how an ex would feel at his old lovers wedding, some people would have a melt-down. Would you invite a guy/girl that you dated in the past to your wedding? And if they show up uninvited, what would you do? I personally would not mind if any of my past guys came to my wedding, it would be quite entertaining I think.  

99.9% of the guys commenting are extremely ugly anyway (the only handsome guy I see is @mediaexcell), e ku eshe o. At the end of the day, most of you are ugly and single. Shout out to all the fine gals one time.

@sophie I'm just calling out some of the idiots. I could have paid, but he tried to force me to do it because of some stupid rule. The money wasn't the issue, but how he said it. My mind was turned off

Idiot #2...

Lol look at this ugly one......joor, you too no get money for pocket to pay for dinner. Idiot!

Lol you're an idiot I wouldn't even give you the time of day. Who is talking about consumption? The man LIED that he had no money to test me, and that is okay?  

Shut up, a date is what I say it is. It is my world over here. Stop being cheap, for me to even walk out of my house to be acquainted with a Liar like he was, I got REALLY cute, drove a couple miles, WAITED, he was even late, and I can't eat a plate of $40? His plate was around the same amount, but I should pay for that too huh. You're and idiot, kill yaself.

That isn't true because if he paid without my notice, the waiter would not have brought the check. I could have paid, but I'm not paying for a liar.

Thats your usual huh because I'm sure thats all your ugly ass can get.

See scorned men.. because you have spent money on women and they mistreat you still you feel somehow. Commot jare. Asking for a girl to pay the bill is different from LYING about not having money and she HAS to pay the bill or did you not read that. Come correct and you will be treated accordingly. There is nothing wrong with paying for a date if it comes from the heart, if the guy has been a complete gentleman and if she LIKES him. Obviously I did not like him enough, nimrod.

It was one plate worth $40, I didn't do too much damage

Um, obviously not all of you guys read the post. He LIED to me and pretended that he had NO money. A real man would not have to lie and tell me he had no money and that he in fact left his wallet at home deliberately. That is the reason WHY I couldn't set myself up to pay. Hell no! What man comes out of his house with no money? He was trying to play me, but in the end, I played him. Before the end of the date I never wanted to see him again and I was not talking that loss. Plus he's the one that ASKED ME out that night. I don't see guys as an ATM machine, like I said I had a stack on me but it would be a waste. And my meal was about $40 lol.. oh and it was delicious (shallots, grilled fish, rice, asparagus, stuffed shrimp and even grilled shrimp). Admit, some guys just try to get over on us women. If I was a guy I couldn't let a woman pay my expenses on a meal I ate and she ate after I asked her to come spend time with me. Stay your broke ass at home then. On to the next...................

So I went on a date where a guy asked me out, I chose the location and we ate full. Typically on a first date a guy pays for the meal, but this one told me that his first rule is that he never pays for the first date. I said.. "What?", in awe that I wasn't aware of such a rule. He asked me if I could respect that, I said yes, and just thought this guy has to be joking so I played along like a TV Show. He then looked at me like "Okay so are you going to pay". I said no, I'm not going to pay for that, and looked in my bag to a stack of cash and said "Oh I left my bank card at home and I left my wallet with all of my money so I can't pay". Of course that was a lie, but since he was playing I decided to play too. He then said that he had no money at all that he deliberately left it at home including his Identification. (See me see wahala oo) He was laughing and smiling so I knew it was some kind of scam, but being that he tried to FORCE me to pay for the food, I couldn't bring myself to be respect him. So I got on the phone, called a friend, and said HELP.  I cooked up a story that my friend would pay. I got up and walked out of the door and said I would be back. He followed me outside and I wondered why. Then told me that I should come with him to go see some sights. God forbid what kind of foolish antics he had next so I decline and was adamant about meeting my friend. He then confessed that he paid for the food and we should go somewhere else. Emi ko! I was so threw with it all. I didn't want to be around such a creep.



He then sends me a message saying "make sure you have money to cover your own meal" lol I then replied in short saying how he tried to scam me but he met his match. And this wasn't a nigerian, but a Black American, and he also claimed to be a Millionaire. Who cares, he can go to hell with his millions. I think he just wanted to feel like he won, he sat and ate with a beautiful lady AND she paid for her meal, guess he wanted to be treated like a woman. Little things like that make people miss out on good people, oh well.

White people want you to believe that Black people are bad so they portray them in a bad way any chance they get, especially on TV. This not always true. Many white people do more crimes and get away with it than Blacks do. If you have ever watched the show "Maury", you will see the majority of women on the show are WHITE and they have slept with 5 different men and are seeking DNA results to find out which is the father. I'm sure those women wanted to get married before having children just like everyone else.

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Last year I was curious enough about the male species to create a 21 Questioned Quiz, which I administered over the phone to some and the rest I did in person. It was all about Bachelors, and the lives they live. Some were current bachelors, and one was not. Each week, I will combine each of their answers for a specific question.  I asked a lot of juicy questions, and believe me I got some REAL JUICY answers.



Question: What type of girls do you look for? (Personality, looks, intellectual ability, etc)

Responses:


"Funny, has something going for herself, supportive of what he does, a female that compliments you, plays her position (lets him do what he does, helps him, doesn't nag). "

"Goal-oriented, funny, laid-back, sensual (in touch with their femininity), freaky, honest with you and herself"

"Grown woman, funny, smart, saved"

"Smart, pretty, fun, church going, open minded, well dressed"

"Funny, outgoing, her personality has to be sexy, will be open to anything depending on what it is"

"Genuine, nice person, kind-hearted, sense of humor, good values, morals, strong religious beliefs, spontaneous, educated, business oriented"

"Funny, nice, laid back, smart, good cook"

"Laid back, chill with, freaky, able to talk to, hold a convo, can play with (can tae a joke), but knows when to get serious, smart girl, good hygiene."

"Talker, has a backbone, will argue, very opinionated, Nose and smile"

"Smart, funny, honest (main), polite, has manners, well dressed (fly),"

"Smart, laid back, cool, outgoing, funny, talk to about anything, not a liar, classy, friendly."

"Intelligent girl, sense of humor, open-minded"

"Outgoing, Nice smile, Funny, Doing something with themselves, Makes you work for her love"

As you can see these are each separate quotes from the interviews I did and each guy had the same type of response. I did an un-biased one-on-one interview with each guy, so they didn't have any idea what the other guys said..until after the interview. Ladies, this is what men what. A cool, laid-back girl, that can make them laugh, teach them something new with her intellect, smell good, be honest, can make a good meal, and etc. Do a check-list of yourself, are you even close to what these guys described? Any man will love you for you even if you can't provide all the above, but would you want to overachieve and satisfy your man in every way if he does for you? Like I said, this is to benefit the women, because some just wonder why they DON'T have a man.

Obviously the woman has nothing better to do with her life than to protest at someone's wedding.