My take is .... We should draw the line between A WEDDING CEREMONY and MARRIAGE we sometimes confuse both words
and in our ignorance, we are actually advocating SEX AFTER A WEDDING CEREMONY .... As being right
marriage means the willful joyful harmony that exists among two individuals of different sex that results in an upward spiritual and inner striving and enoblement
the WEDDING BEING AN EARTHLY SOCIAL ACTIVITY
but MARRIAGE HAPPENS BEFORE THE WEDDING ... SOMETIMES AFTER ... MOST TIMES NEVER ... Some people are wedded and not MARRIED
OGA, u fit define am as u like but if u Neva pay dowry, u neva marry. If u dey warehouse person pickin u better desist from it bcos the day wey dem go put gutless for your shoulder, na naijapals here we go read am