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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Relationship made easy. |
on: 22-10-2010 10:55 AM
| Hmmmmm its better when a woman loves more than a man,its easier for a man to adjust than a woman.Cos when a woman loves you more ,nothing can make her change but when she dont love you tht much,she might change.
my dear, i tink mr. Poster is right. Its better n safer 4 a man 2 luv more in a rltnship. Most times, men freak out wen dey find out deir woman luvs dem more. Pls ask dose male friends, uncles, brothers of urs n evn ur dad, and dey wil tel u same. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: The reason why students don't read nowadays! |
on: 21-10-2010 01:32 PM
| The reason why students don't read nowadays is among other reasons because they are mostly entangled by matters of the heart(Love,Relationships e.t.c) so they have little or no time to concentrate on their studies thus failing their exams and depending on bribery! I think we need to conduct youth programs througout the nation if not the world to lecture our students on how to get their minds focused on their studies! What do you think guys?
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IF IT WAS YOU WHAT WOULD YOU DO? |
on: 21-10-2010 01:21 PM
| I GOT A CALL TODAY FROM AN EX-BOYFRIEND'S MOTHER I WAS SURPRISES BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN OR SPOKEN TO HIM IN A LITTLE OVER SIX YEARS, IT WASN'T A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, NOTHING PHYSICAL BUT STILL I PROMISED MYSELF NEVER TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IN EVER AGAIN.
BUT TODAY I FOUND OUT HE HAS BONE CANCER IN IT'S FINAL STAGES AND MAYBE HE WANT TO MAKES AMENDS I DON'T KNOW BUT I STILL GET KINDA GET ANGRY WHENEVER I THINK ABOUT HIM, SIX YEARS OF ANGER AND RESENTMENT HONESTLY I'M FINDING IT KINDA HARD TO JUST LET GO
Pls lets ask d poster if she did not place a curse on him. Before d mother called her, it means she must have consulted first and was told d son needs 2 beg 4 her 4givness.Though, i dnt knw d kind of pain he inflicted on u, or d degree, my advice 2 u is 2 forgive dis young man. Six years is such a long time 2 hold grudges against sumone, i mean u've been killing urself inside all dese years. Go and see him, hear him out, n i can assure u, u wil even shed tears seeing him in dat condition and feel guilty for nt 4givin him all dese while. Pls come back here and share d story of reconciliation with us. Cheers! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT? |
on: 25-08-2010 09:38 AM
| Actually, the man is not matured. He knew the girl loved him and decided to take advantage of her bcos he had programmed in his mind that she will soon leave. That's why he is acting like nothing happened. He never loved her. Meanwhile a man who loves a woman won't seek to collect the little she has, but give hr. I don't mean that it is bad giving to ur boyfriend, but, this guy is actually callous and a cheat. On tehother way round, the girl gave him some of these monies as her hearty gift to him because of the love she had for him. I think for those ones, she should just let go, but for those ones he borrowed, he should just be sincere with his conscience and pay her back. If he refuses, the girl should leave him to God! God will judge him. I hate people who take advantage of people.
...and d most painfl part of it is dat he doesnt have conscience, i mean hw can a man break a lady's hrt and yet do notin 2 pay her back d money he borrowed? hw does he xpect her 2 bear all dat, he must be without conscience. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT? |
on: 25-08-2010 09:08 AM
| Actually, the man is not matured. He knew the girl loved him and decided to take advantage of her bcos he had programmed in his mind that she will soon leave. That's why he is acting like nothing happened. He never loved her. Meanwhile a man who loves a woman won't seek to collect the little she has, but give hr. I don't mean that it is bad giving to ur boyfriend, but, this guy is actually callous and a cheat. On tehother way round, the girl gave him some of these monies as her hearty gift to him because of the love she had for him. I think for those ones, she should just let go, but for those ones he borrowed, he should just be sincere with his conscience and pay her back. If he refuses, the girl should leave him to God! God will judge him. I hate people who take advantage of people.
...and d most painfl part of it is dat he doesnt have conscience, i mean hw can a man break a lady's hrt and yet do notin 2 pay her back d money he borrowed? hw does he xpect her 2 bear all dat, he must be without conscience. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: men wat is happenning |
on: 23-08-2010 03:58 PM
| He probably was trying to get the "experience" girls desire so much. At least a little extra wouldnt hurt shey? There was an accidental discharge when Nepa took light and GBAM Baby enter. The pregs girl is being mean but she has the right to be. Abortion could put her life in danger too. Either way, its both the girls faults. how? | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT? |
on: 23-08-2010 12:47 PM
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wen one opens his/her mouth to ask for a loan, doesn't matter the r/s. it is a verbal contract that needs to be paid back as agreed. it is even more shameful if that guy is waiting for her to ask him for it. he has no self respect and dignity at all. and there's nothing wrong in wot she did, even credit to her for having such a kind heart. [/quote]....yeah, jst dat she was being nice 2 d wrong prsn. d guy doesnt worth her luv n care. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT FOOLISH TO GIVE/LEND UR B/F MONEY? AFTER BREAK-UP, CAN U STILL ASK 4 IT? |
on: 23-08-2010 10:24 AM
| We shouldnt pretend like dis doesnt happen. A friend of mine was in a r/tnship wit a guy who promised her marriage. She gave him her whole heart and was committed to d r/ltnship. On different occassions, d guy borrowed some good sum of money from her. She at times used 2 give him money without him asking jst 2 assist him if he's broke. Now, the guy has ended the r/ltnship wit her 'cos he found sumone else, though she tried 2 let him go on a peaceful note. She kept quiet bout d money he's owing her 'cos she's so hurt, she doesnt knw if asking him bout it wud hurt her more, esp if d guy ignores her or doesnt give it 2 her. The guy on his own part jst kept quiet bout it too as if he didnt collect anytin from her. Sum guys can be callous, u know. Wen she opened up to me and sum of her friends, dey called her a fool for ever helpin a guy wit cash. But i dont tink she's foolish, or is she? Its more dan 6 months now and she needs d money, but doesnt want 2 hurt her feelings, since she has not fully gotten over d break-up. So, my fellow NaijaPals, Is it possible 2 get ur money back(I mean only the ones he borrowed) with peace after break-up? and Is there anytin bad/wrong/foolish in givin/lending ur b/f money? Pls i nid candid advice on this.
b careful though, ur frn myt just b saving face.....there had been cases wen money / things were freely given as a gift wen blinded by lurve. In other to save face n not to be labelled as a mungun................................. Get it rite, she at times used 2 give him money wen d guy is broke. D money she's talkin bout here is d one d guy asked her 2 borrow him. She needs advice on hw 2 go bout it in a peacefl manner and dats y i posted it here so i can get usefl advice frm NaijaPals, and as a matter of fact, i'm gonna print dese responses and send 2 her. If she's tryin 2 save face, like u said, hw wil she get d rite advice? So stop insinuatingam only asking you so that u dont get involved n find out diff versions of the truth....I have gotten involved in stuff lyk this with my sis/ frns thinking yawagogas only to find out that ma girl held bck frm me n trust me u wudnt like it esp wen the b*****d in question cant wipe that smug look off his face.... c the reaction of most of the gals here, thats they image the wanna portray thats how stong most of us want to b but sumtimes we lose that wen we meet the ryt guys, but all is well if that guy genuinely care n doesnt exploit dat ok | | | |