i no be small pikin.. my dear

i no be small pikin.. my dear

To me I will tell the girl to think very well that money might bring back their relationship,
but if she decided to forget about the relationship let her also forget about the money,it
will not cause her any thing just to abstain from that relationship and start a new life
altogther.

come to think of it this money was borrowed and not asked for or given for free, there's a difference here. If a lady should ask for a loan and end a relationship its at the discretion of the man to let the money go or not to. It shouldn't be any different here.

y u dey seal ya lips,
i no lie o

i remember one guy i was dating and he asked me to borrow him some to pay back
at d ending of that month but fail to pay, and i purposely refuse to ask him until after
3 months. When i asked him he never expected it, and he almost quit d r/ship
but i made sure i wait for him in his office to collect ma money

if i was d one i would collect to the last kobo of ma money even b4 d breakup

There"s nothing absolutely wrong in lending or giving your boyfriend money cos its not written anywhere that the guys alone shoould do the spending but in this case your friend is really in need of this money amd i think the best thing to do is to see that he returns the money without any hesitancu esp now that they are no more together.Sorry dear someone much better is out there for you.I  was once invovled in smth like this

yes na the guys wey dey dis days na gigolos them bi

come to think of it this money was borrowed and not asked for or given for free, there's a difference here. If a lady should ask for a loan and end a relationship its at the discretion of the man to let the money go or not to. It shouldn't be any different here.

@poster this guy never love ya friend, he only stayed in d  r/ship coz of what he is getting
i guess he has use her to achieve all his aim, squeeze dry b4 leaving her in shackles
anyway this shold also serves a warning or lesson to we single ladies. Attest ya love
first b4 helping a guy and dnt allow ya love surpasses the guy's own in order to avoid this type of a thing

in d first place y will a total man go after a gurl wit d mindset that d lady will
make his hands her bank account huh?

Guys sometimes una dey fall we hands oo

@poster,well this is serious...u dey give am money whenever he's broke...that wrong
i won't say he's not a man (atleast na him walk up to u)...but u have to be able to take care of ur girl...the guy should be ashame  of himself.
but pls ladies in the house don't advice her to break the guy neck.haba

she wasn't foolish in any way, most people will do same when truly in love, but the money is hers and she has every right to ask for it.