Lol that's the close minded approach. So those that endure abuse whether it be physical, mental, emotional or what have you should just stay in it because divorce is not the way to go? Please...let's open up our minds..we were given brains and understanding for a reason. That stigma attached to separation and divorce is counterproductive. But..with Nigerians being used to an oppressive culture, I cannot call myself surprised. All in all, to each their own but at the end of the day..no one should have to remain in a detrimental situation to appease those that they care to identify with. Period.
It is unfortunate t see that you are single. First of all, what was the cause of your separation or divorce? If you cannot iron things out with your previous husband, how do you know that you would be successful with the second one. I am very sure that you don't know what you wand as far as life partner is concerned. You don't want a man that would give you headaches. Sorry, successful marriages come with headaches and and ups and downs. You even made mentioned of old men, widower or divorce e, all this people come with marital headaches. You MUST learn to deal with the ingredients that come with marriage life. I think in my opinion, you are not ready to be a wife for the second time because you don't know what you want.
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