@poster, Xter said it all. different reasons like poverty and odas. also dont 4get LAZINESS and d CRAZE 4 WEALTH! tho d latter is more pronounced. som kid in schl wud rather apply 4 BBa dan read, same wit a gal 4 Miss Nigeria Pageant or Model jobs.Y? cos its generally believed dat...its all about d ballary (cash).

Thanks poster, we alll need a dose of self reassurance and wat good words to encourage NP...9c! 

just overwhelmed dat als a boy bcomes D MAN!

well well well! if d guy is putting on a condom, he has 2 take it off, dispose it carefully and probably wash his d**k and if he's not wearing his 'helmet', he shud relax and its a good tym 2 tell her swt notings and cuddle lightly...another round may well be on d way . for the lady, sitting there and watchin Mr says a lot bout not bein romantic...she shud snuggle 2 her man. if he's d quiet withdrawn type, lay ur head on his shoulder and probably put his arms around u...talk lightly and if 'it' was good, tell him and if u had some issues on 'it'...wisely look him in d eyes and softly tell him without putting him down. 2 both patners, play a bit after coitus, share jokes and banter till u both doze of or u both head 2 d kitchen 2 prepare some edibles. who knows...another round?

Exter, wa shere! u get mouth...

well, guys u got 90 days/ 3 months contract 2 julius berger d road. from d 2nd trimester it becomes dangerous to the child's health and can lead 2 ectopic pregnancy or miscarriage. good tym 4 we 2 acknowledge d beauty of being a producer of life and also 2 encourage d beauty of womanhood. tho d journey just dey start...

9c 1 poster...

Its just a sex tryst...

3-some

threesome...

@skip d, 9c 1! @ esonu, i dey feel ur pain...truth's it is an unconcious question dat has come 2 begin most of our conversations even those without our lovers/patners. it however stems from mistrust but in cases where there is no clarity of communication den u'v a ryt 2 ask...

comparison is a dent on d psyche of any patner who has been compared as it deflates d self esteem of d person and is usually a death knell 4 d rship. i'd never degenrate 2 such public display of disaffection nway band i'd never compare again...beta 2 enjoy wat u currently have dan wats no longer within ur grasp

But d timing really matters too...there's no perfect tym, just a 'chemistry' not 1 sided beginnings or arousals.evrytin shud b mutual, and after u both no d responsibility u'r goin in2 cos sex is a responsibility...pregnancy, diseases, trust! it always takes 2 to  tango...

enjoy the moment...cos u may neva have another shot @ d reason for dat smile!

@ diafra, no b lie! @ machiavelli...reality is dat politicians r d gr8est and smartest yahoo-yahoo men.dey defraud 150 million ppl daily and dem say notin dey happen...tym go soon come we go take wat belongs 2 us more dan d niger delta struggle way! as 4 d issue @ hand, its not gonna last, wen thre's d dry periuod, wat happens? family needs food on d tanle . as a sideline, got no probs but aint kool tho its as i always say...a game of grred!

9c 1 poster...

d summary...'no romance without finance'. U cannot express urself without it and its needed for d security of d rshp...even if na small

9c 1 SB!

yea.pride's inherent in all humans! but power and pride is nothing without control...real men 'tuck' dias in!

@ flymamcita, its cos most men feel d pressure of responsibility and its up 2 dia wives/gals 2 bring him 2 prospects and reality dat they understand and will be there 4 him. show him some luv, call him 2 no how he's faring (which unfortunately most gals dont) except flash...u'll realise wen he's down, he'll come running 2 u especially wen u kip ur 'matters' privarte and not go chatting 2 friends even if they were bedroom issue. Problems shud also b mutually solved and gals /wives shud b smart 2 also know wen dia man is low on finance and probabl help. 4get our ego, we may not tell but if u help, u'd b surprised if he wasn't a giving type, he would spoil u wt cash or gifts subsequently.