u dream of it...a gr8 tym wt him after all his whinings of bizy and ur bizy schedule.all of a sudden,an opportunity presents itself 4 '2geda tym' n u say its not realistic i wonder wat is...in ur rship (not trying 2 rub it in tho.its not necessarily an outlandish /extravagant moment) in ur own little way...ask married couples who have been married and r loosing 'touch'.fdey so wish...

ochendu, u just hit it d way i wud have...its for their collective good

tessybj, u aint seen my recipe...come have a look and u cud learn-yummy! onyin...i neva said it wasnt in d plan,as far as i get 2 cook 4 her, i'd go anywhere in d world. infact my destination-ideally 4 my honeymoon is Paris

d philosophy of men z datly money's synonymous wt women...wen u got d paper, d gals come in droves! however cutting d gals some slack, dey neeed d security of money in their lives though i bliv they shud work hard,independently n legit 2 have a fat acct so in d end, we can always compliment each oda's happiness in all ways!

esonu,i aint deterred...simply saying urs i all i requested Plsssssssssssssssssssss

I'd start wt myself and am realistic.

• go 2 d market, get cooking stuffs
  cook a 9c dish 4 her: spaghetti a la pasta(my fav)
  get a romantic serials,we watch 2geda
  get blue bulbs 2 make d room dim @ nyt
  take her 4 a walk n get some icecream
  definitely give her a mindblowin sex

telling her how much i luv her n discuss d way 4wd 4 our lives n rship

guys dont like cramping of dia lives by dia gals @ some point, gals luv dia girlie tyms 2.If both patners wanted 2geda tym,wats gonna b ur idea 4 a treat wt ur patner? outdoor/indoor...describe.

am 1 nway. and u'r ryt bout the applications of demand n supply and d role of economics in our daily lives. however diminishing marginal utility must take place wt d comin of d children. rebranding and repackagin is kool if we guys can increase d love we wud/ have for our spouse n kip our eyes of skirts...

d ideal woman/man is d 1 whom we deal wit ideally,honestly and in a compatible woman.

ochendu, u speak like an economist! scarcity increases value...4 doz dat can hold on. if d law of diminishing marginal returns apply here, en d marriage wud b bitter cos at a point, there will b no utility!

sex is 4 matured minds with a sense of rsponsiblity and marriage is 4 d brave who dare d fates but have all 2 win for.so it takles mutual consent...afterall  2 will always b 1

xter, no cause 4 alarm...just extending a hand of friendship d Geez way! lol

dunno wat i'd do. but look at it dis way sha-if she's d 1 luv and perhaps i'm still planning d logistics tho i'v made up my mind, will she foot the bills? lol its a man's tin in dis side of d world .4get civilization. or do u want her 2 wake up 2moro n 'divorce' me 4 d flimsiest excuse. marriage is sanctity,so in dis aspects,lets stay African pls and take ur tym b4 saying i do.

babe, get a life...move on. except u'r kool wt his promiscuity!

life ga na-ga ga...

DP, u welcome. Xter, yea am 1 but most importantly,its all bout sharing wat we know and making others happy aside d whole fun tin...chop knuckle!!!

kool

as man n wifey, nothin dey dis 1. tho as espoused by some ladies dey need privacy 1c in a yl especially during mensuration cos some guys fear die.me don accompany my gal enter bathroom during menses and helped her out cos she was weak,even attached d tampoons 2 new set of panties.make una no laff me o...as far as kids neva com, no house help/relation and d doors 2 enter d house r locked,enter bathroom leave d door open...if he or she wan enter make im freestyle.

Coitus interruptus-withdrawal method is ok as long as both patners dont get carried away. infact 4 d guy-if he's not ready 2 b a fada, he knows wen he's cumin and shd withdraw.4 d woman-she knows wen d guys legs r wobbling as a prelude 2 ********,she fit push ma guy comot in dia own interest

much as i dont like d idea of using condoms, if she demands i do so, i'd oblige. she can also wear 1! though dis cud burst

contraceptives??? i go wt dis but it needs discipline especially in the use of d dummy tablets and some women cud get bored wt d routine. as 4 side-effects,go wt dat recommened by ur DR or agencies.not all have dem!

Natural methods e.g Billing's, rhythm's r d best...knowing d ovulation and all dat.d pap day,milk,dry,water etc. problem's most gals even doz wey dey form big gals(orry 2 say) no nothing of dis. However, some churches and agencies like Society for family health teach couples on this n even how 2 get d sex of a baby u want before dey get marrioed.there r even books.

However, wen patners r ready 4 marriage, dey have 2 sit down and discuss extensively on so many issues such as d no of kids dey want,sex (tho we aint God n i got no problem wt anysex),spacing etc. play safe n stay responsible peeps!

harakiri u don talk am as e b! ur name means honorable suicide in japanese...hope u no!lol