D.p, i used to think u're a born again xtian but ur comments on dis topic flattened me big time....i believe u shld know wat GOD said bout dis issue in d Bible
I am a christian..........but let us face reality..........how many couples stay without sampling b4 marriage?..........tell me............To me, what I consider as marriage is consent by both parties, parents consent and blessing and exchange of gift......that is what marriage is............and am sure that couple has done that............no one would tell me that God doesnt recognise what we call traditional marriage........the white wedding is oyinbo own type of marriage and if I decide to do oyinbo marriage just to fulfill all righteousness, you will cancel it just becos am pregnant?.............
Ignorance is indeed a terrible disease! what has been born again got to do with marriage, the whites brought religion and added their culture to it, have you ever imagine whites people doing traditional marriage! it doesn't exist in their culture and if i may ask, what condition makes a man and a woman husband and wife? once the bride-price is paid and duely accepted, they are declared husband and wife by God (see bible reference) and not a pastor, what a pastor does is just to pronounce blessings upon them and stands as a witness together with the congegration. my brother even if you no get money do church wedding, just pay your woman's bride-price and receive blessings from both parents shikena!!