Not having morales is d thing in our society & when u find someone well-raised, it cause a big problem 4 d ones wif bad upbringing, who is D'banj that she should be running after him or hitting her head on d roof 2 go out on occassion wif him. U are one of d exception (mannered) ones & keep ur head up sister.
Its high time we stop living in d past, frankly i think Nigerians should have over-grown this old ways of reasoning(u may call it gossip). we all have our lives 2 live & i think we should borrow a leaf 4rm d europeans "live ur lives"