I´m a friend to my ex, we must be friends cause of our Daughter. But even if we will not have an Daughter we will be friends, cause i think the time that we spend into our relationship will be waste if we will not understand our self now. But first we Fight and than we sattle. (He was my first love)
I'm sorry... but i think if you have a child with your ex, and he definitely wants to be in his child's life with you not even wanting him anymore, you have no option. because that dude aint goig no where, you're going to keep seeing him until he decides to stop coming to see his child or until the child is all grown up and independent. Apart from that, i'll say that if you have a child by your ex, just have in mind that you're going to put up with him/her for 18 freaking yrs. deal with it.