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2721  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: If na you? on: 13-10-2010 05:38 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 05:31 PM
peter's decision...

He loves her but the fear he has is he may get quick temper one day when memories of this come over him and trash her
2722  Forum / Relationships & Romance / If na you? on: 13-10-2010 05:00 PM
Peter, University gradute has been dating Pascaline, house help, and planning marriage. This girl was so resistant to Peter's approaches for love making that she wanted to be sure he did not only want to 'test her' and run. Determined, he kept on but had to take advantage to 'release' himself one day. Fateful day as Pascaline lands unexpectedly caught him. He pleads and she forgives. Pascaline then proceed to learn hairdressing while Peter is still jobless. He informs her parents of his intentions but still searching for money. They accept and even opted they stay together and make money to come home but Pascaline refuses. He keeps on assisting her -even paying her rents.
   Later as she opens a saloon- with his assistance also, she says no relationship again. Her mother  intervenes to bring situation to normal. Peter finally makes money and starts paying her brideprice. At the traditional wedding, Pascaline is pregnate and Peter knows it is for him. But as they get home staying together, Peter discovers she had the pregnancy during the three months of separation they had. He forgives in Janaury without knowing the author. February of the same year Peter intercepts a valentine's day love message in Pascaline's phone- from someone she had introduced as a normal friend.She becomes arrogant even asking what right he got to touch her phone then claims now he was her ex when things start getting hot. Peter still forgives.
   Days later, she almost had premature birth. Peter moves even in the night borrowing money but immediately from hospital, she says "that his small money". You know when pushing someone to the wall, be careful when that person turns back! So Peter turned back when Pascaline's sister accused him of not buying things for the baby. He had indeed given more than 3/4 of what was spent buying the things but Pascaline told her sister a different story.
  That is when Peter says enough is enough! no more expenses on this baby as the first is already refuted. She delivers in his home but he refuses to name the child until all the clouds surrounding the baby are cleared. Pascaline's mother comes over but takes her away- later framed story she took her to be fed because she was eating in Peter's home! While away, they did baptize  the child without peter's knowledge, but still came to stay with him. Not wishing to tolerate her arrogance anymore, he slaps her one night and next day she packs out of his home. Her parents welcome and keep her. After waitng for one year, they call on Peter and her father says he did not even accept that marriage, returning part of the brideprice.
  peter takes it and years later Pascaline is making attempts to come back : claims she has learnt her lessons. IF NA YOU?Huh?Huh??? -will you keep her?
2723  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THINGS U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY on: 13-10-2010 12:31 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: eddybabs on 13-10-2010 12:08 PM
mmmmmmmm.......... wat abt u r ugly? lol

Dere is no ulgly woman. D character of a woman is her beauty

Be like say you bi gud woman! make God put you hand 4 dat talk!
2724  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THINGS U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY on: 13-10-2010 11:59 AM
Thanks lady,  even I will run for my dear life!
2725  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THINGS U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY on: 13-10-2010 11:36 AM
Quote from: Enockia on 13-10-2010 11:22 AM
now tell me how do i handle a lady who tells me all of the above?
Bros, you do take precautions in your relationships so too does she has to take. What matters to me is not what a lady says but what I catch her doing cos some say so as a result of what some men do to them girls.
Handle her while watching if she falls victim especially of putting her  eggs in many baskets in which case you kick her out!
2726  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THINGS U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY on: 13-10-2010 11:25 AM
Not like does not favour me nor I against reciprocal love. My idea is to drive in love from christian perspective. Rather do your best and be blameless before God. The heart is one and cannot be shared into many baskets. Except we are talking on two different loves: one in which you do not love with your heart and one in which you love with your heart. No heart's love can be shared!
2727  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THINGS U SHOULD NEVER TELL A GUY on: 13-10-2010 10:44 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 10:25 AM
While in a relationship...there are a few stuff the guys need clarity before u ever get to mention....see some Lucia listed below and make your inputs...

1.
WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You'll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he'll call. If not, next. You don't have time for anyone that doesn't have time for you.

2.
WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? There's only one answer to this question: Because he didn't want to!!! What you're really asking is, "Why didn't you want to call me?" Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn't be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don't be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it's a big mess!

3.
WHERE WERE YOU? If he wanted you to know where he was, he'd tell you. What you're really asking is, "Were you with another female that you like better than me?" Your insecurity is showing, sweetie. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.
 
4.
I LOVE YOU. You're saying it in the hopes that he'll say it back, but what if he doesn't? You'll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying "I love you" is not going to speed things up if he's not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he's ready.

5.
DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he's not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don't torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

6.
ARE YOU SEEING ANYONE ELSE? Mystery is to men what romance is to women. You've just indirectly told him that you want to be exclusive, you've handed over control of the relationship and you've killed the mystery. Who knew 5 words could be so powerful?

7.
WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that's your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that's constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it's going. If it's going somewhere, you'll know it. If it's not, you'll know it too.

8.
WE NEED TO TALK. This is the equivalent of, "Go to the principal's office". Guys know it's not going to be a fun conversation, so they're already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don't try to talk to him when he's tired, stressed or trying to watch Man U and Chelsea!

9.
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? What you're really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you mad at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he's thinking, he'll tell you on his own. If he doesn't, he'll lie when you ask.

10.
I DON'T TRUST YOU. What you're actually saying is, "You need to step up your game, because I can see you're up to something." If he is up to something, he'll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb—it'll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.

For the ladies pls.
I agree with you but only love eggs in many baskets can lead to a more terrible mess -you maybe called 'ashawoooo' and lose your dignity. Better put your all your love eggs in one basket and when it breaks, God and people will uplift you!
2728  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I'M SORRY on: 13-10-2010 10:20 AM
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 12-10-2010 05:22 PM
Just Mean it & DO NOT commit d offence AGAIN! Angry
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-10-2010 04:59 PM
three ways.
1. I,m sorry i promise it will never happen again
2. i will cry
3. make him happy by making sweet love
Ur man fit follow 'sweet love' enter grave!
So you fit always do bad afterall, sweet love go cool him heart eehhnn?-pretending love
  For me , say sorry and tell urself it will not happen again even in my absence cos if you tell me sorry and I come catch u 4 the same thing again, you don die 4 my hand. I just turn my back 4 u
2729  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I'M SORRY on: 13-10-2010 09:54 AM
Bullshit! I see some girl say you make sweet love? Na love go do weti? Na sweet love di take many men go 4 early grave-ooooooh!
Make you say from your heart sorry and make sure you not do'am again even the person no deh near you biko!!!
2730  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice needed... on: 13-10-2010 09:47 AM
How married are they? Is it CWS (Come We Stay) or legally married? If legal, find out if polygamy or monogamy. If Mono, then he is in trouble (or love will not let her pursue him?). If poly, then she bears it afterall she loves him! Roll Eyes
2731  Forum / FunnyHub (Jokes + Comedy) / Re: FIRST WEDDING on: 8-10-2010 04:08 PM
White na happiness for the woman has got a victim she will worry. Black na sadness for the man has had someone to worry him for ever! Embarrassed
2732  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can a Guy sincerely love a Girl and yet cheat on her?? on: 8-10-2010 03:35 PM
Love is blindness and u no fit see another girl. The one u love is the best and anytime you wan gather energy so that u go enjoy her well well cos she be na the hottest. If you cheat then you not lov'am sincerely ooooh biko! Roll Eyes
2733  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Policeman Impregnates Daughter 4 Times. on: 8-10-2010 03:19 PM
Incredible! Wish occultic gods deal with him! A disgrace to male race Mr. Policeman Sad
2734  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: BEING COMPARED WITH AN EX!!! on: 8-10-2010 12:32 PM
He or she who compares and declare an 'ex' more precious is implicitely declaring how stupid he/she is. "Becos when you di chop sweet chop then bitter chop come why you want spoil ur mouth test it?" Is it not because you're looking for sweeter one? Then the ex was not also best!
And you go waka from one man/ woman to another until no perfect one will come.....aishawooooooo
2735  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is marriage really necessary? on: 8-10-2010 12:22 PM
I believe ur question comes as a result of the painful treatment some couples go through. However, MARRAIGE is necessary and sweet depending on who you marry- that is each party compliments and strifes to please the other (spiritually,emotionally, materially etc) depending on your ability! Kiss
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