Advice needed... (Page 6)

Date: 10-10-2010 8:02 pm (13 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- FlyMamacita at 12-10-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bissyboy on 12-10-2010 09:05 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-10-2010 06:22 PM
Quote from: Bissyboy on 11-10-2010 04:22 PM
THAT'S A VERY SAD ONE...BETRAYAL OF TRUST. SHE SHOULD CALL IT QUIT, THAT GUY IS NOT WORTH IT. TRULY, WHITE CHICS FALL IN LUV SO EASILY BUT THAT SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED... @FLYMAMACITA, TELL HER TO FORGET THE GUY, PITCH HER TENT ELSEWHERE... Sad Sad :'(
It will b always sometin...white gals fall in love easily, black gals go for money, Chinese ones r too shy,...

ppl got sometin to say abt everybody, but sometimes they dont knw....


I MEANT TO SAY THAT LOVE IS TOTAL WITH A WHITE CHIC...SHE GIVES YOU HER ALL, HOLDING NOTHING BACK. I'M TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE (NOT PERSONAL) BUT SOME DARK GUYS HAVE ALWAYS TAKEN THAT FOR GRANTED, CASH IN ON IT AND BETRAY THE LOVE... TELL HER TO QUIT, IT MIGHT BE DIFFICULT BUT THAT'S THE SOLUTION
Some ppl c 'giving ur all' as a bad tin, cos like dat u expose too much of ursef...

Posted: at 12-10-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 12-10-2010 06:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: princedafe on 12-10-2010 02:24 PM
wat is the big deal in this post

the guy has two ladies one in Gambia with kids and one with him. Your should just stay with him and call herself second wife.

simple.

Hmm cud hav bin possible if she wud hav bin raised like dat, but is not in our culture
Posted: at 12-10-2010 06:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 12-10-2010 06:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mcena on 12-10-2010 02:46 PM
since she already have kids for him, she should forget everything about Gambia and think about her future with the children because for sure he has a wife over they. my advice is for her to go for court marriage if he agrees. visiting Gambia will do her no good but hurt!
I agree she betta dont go Gambia, it cud b painfull..
Posted: at 12-10-2010 06:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 12-10-2010 06:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 12-10-2010 03:29 PM
NP, yu guys always Over-exaggerate the Word "Generalization"

l Never Said ALL White Women are dat Dumb and Stupid

l Don't have to Use the Word MOST for yu to know l'm Excluding yu from the List... Yu know Within yurself dat yu're not one of those when yu're not

And the Important Thing to Take From dat Write up is the Fact dat "Those Sweet Words" are What they Use Against the Whites


l'm Sorry if yu Read my Message with the Wrong Mood My Dear Flymamacita. It Wasn't meant to make yu Angry, but to help yur Friend See the True Reality of Things
i was just suprised from ur write up, but like i said no bi all white women who r stupid or dumb!

I understand wht u mean wit those 'sweet words'  Smiley

Posted: at 12-10-2010 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 12-10-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 10-10-2010 08:18 PM
So gambia pple sef dey perform wonders like dis Grin

The name gambia originated from the word GAMBLE so i'm no suprised.

Posted: at 12-10-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Willie24 at 12-10-2010 10:21 PM (13 years ago)
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If I was that girl are will put in for divorce, so i can get my share of what had earn.
Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Michro at 12-10-2010 10:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Willie24 on 12-10-2010 10:21 PM
If I was that girl are will put in for divorce, so i can get my share of what had earn.
Huh?

Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sixtyhoney at 12-10-2010 10:41 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmm anyway no comment
Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Michro at 12-10-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sixtyhoney on 12-10-2010 10:41 PM
hmmmmmmmmm anyway no comment
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Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 12-10-2010 10:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 10-10-2010 08:14 PM
She should tell him to take her home (gambia) for a visit.But befor that, she needs to get a lot of information about gambia.Definitely ,he has a wife back home.Sum Gambia men are like that.

even white men too , atleast it happen right here in our nose and we can not do any thing about it , the german embassy casanovia man with his nigeria girl friend , my advice to her is to try as much as possible to pinned him down there , going to gambia will actually worsen her situation , as that fast guy is happily and legally married before leaving for abroad ,
thats even small sef , me i am going to marry in four difference state , and choose one as headquarter , and i will be needing more trailers to transports my picking so , na bless from ALLAH so ,
Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:57 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Michro at 12-10-2010 10:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on 12-10-2010 10:57 PM
Quote from: onyin on 10-10-2010 08:14 PM
She should tell him to take her home (gambia) for a visit.But befor that, she needs to get a lot of information about gambia.Definitely ,he has a wife back home.Sum Gambia men are like that.

even white men too , atleast it happen right here in our nose and we can not do any thing about it , the german embassy casanovia man with his nigeria girl friend , my advice to her is to try as much as possible to pinned him down there , going to gambia will actually worsen her situation , as that fast guy is happily and legally married before leaving for abroad ,
thats even small sef , me i am going to marry in four difference state , and choose one as headquarter , and i will be needing more trailers to transports my picking so , na bless from ALLAH so ,
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Posted: at 12-10-2010 10:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Skipo4u at 13-10-2010 05:11 AM (13 years ago)
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She should try and just move forward with her life........before its too late. That is love has caused her.
Posted: at 13-10-2010 05:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moniconyez at 13-10-2010 05:38 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 10-10-2010 08:02 PM
Pals, i have a friend with a big problem and i need ur advice....

My friend is bin married for 4 years now with a Gambian guy, and at first everything went ok

but after som time she started to see some strange behaviour from him like, transfer a lot of money

home, no answers when she asked to who,...One day he admided to her tht he has 3 kids back in Gambia

she was shocked and hurt but she got over it and forgiv him for d lies...Back then i told her i didn trust d story

cos no kids without a wife, right?? So now d boyfriend of his sister and a friend of his (they grew up togeda)

told my friend he got 5 kids over there, and is still married, and last when he went for holiday he visited them!

Now she dont knw wht to do cos guess wht, she loves him too much  Undecided
Shud she confront him with d story or go find out more? Shud she stay with him or....?

Pls no insults!



Do she have any kid with that guy? If yes how many?
Posted: at 13-10-2010 05:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- janegeorge at 13-10-2010 07:47 AM (13 years ago)
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When a relationship is started with lies,a lot of lies will be told to cover the first.u have to face reality wether to live with the man and his lies or quit
Posted: at 13-10-2010 07:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- adebisi2 at 13-10-2010 08:17 AM (13 years ago)
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To be a friend there is a reason for it, neither to be a wife and husband there is God plan. Love is a spirit living and develop in Human Heart. Your friend has to talk to his husband that dis is what i had and having children is not a disease and i need the truth of the matter and you have to let me know your family and your family have to know me. If it's true that both of them Love each other. There we be a continue happy home after resolution of the issue.
Posted: at 13-10-2010 08:17 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Bestheart at 13-10-2010 08:43 AM (13 years ago)
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naturally men are like that, if you cannot endure a man, then c'est fini pour toi.
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- sexy_error at 13-10-2010 09:24 AM (13 years ago)
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Move on with life....its difficult to start all over again...forgive and forget.....live simple
Posted: at 13-10-2010 09:24 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 13-10-2010 09:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 12-10-2010 10:59 PM
Quote from: ajanni on 12-10-2010 10:57 PM
Quote from: onyin on 10-10-2010 08:14 PM
She should tell him to take her home (gambia) for a visit.But befor that, she needs to get a lot of information about gambia.Definitely ,he has a wife back home.Sum Gambia men are like that.

even white men too , atleast it happen right here in our nose and we can not do any thing about it , the german embassy casanovia man with his nigeria girl friend , my advice to her is to try as much as possible to pinned him down there , going to gambia will actually worsen her situation , as that fast guy is happily and legally married before leaving for abroad ,
thats even small sef , me i am going to marry in four difference state , and choose one as headquarter , and i will be needing more trailers to transports my picking so , na bless from ALLAH so ,
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Huh???/
Posted: at 13-10-2010 09:30 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Emmandazie at 13-10-2010 09:47 AM (13 years ago)
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How married are they? Is it CWS (Come We Stay) or legally married? If legal, find out if polygamy or monogamy. If Mono, then he is in trouble (or love will not let her pursue him?). If poly, then she bears it afterall she loves him! Roll Eyes
Posted: at 13-10-2010 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- josehine at 13-10-2010 10:09 AM (13 years ago)
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let her just quit the relationship to avoid more harm
Posted: at 13-10-2010 10:09 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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