Please people read what you write before sending
jeez
arrrgggg!!!! thank you, i thought i was alone, Gosh!!! my head is really hurting from breaking down some of the comments.
to the subject now... i want to belief the guy must have done everything within his power to make things right but failed. at this point, all he has to do is probably bring his wife into the picture, because this battle is way beyond him alone.. its a battle of obsession now. so, wife, join forces with your husband both prayer-wise and verbal, this is your marriage, its left to you to SAVE IT!!!