@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.
number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....
My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urself or judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.
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